i am a tomboy i have recently started college and all the people in my class are girls so im finding it really hard to fit in. i dont want people to think im a loner coz IM NOT i got a lot of friends outside college. i want to make friends but i jus dont feel like hanging out with people im not comfortable with.what should i do.HELP
2006-09-16 08:16:00 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well, then those people are really screwed up. I have a tomboy in my class, and she is one of the most-liked person. That's only because she cracks jokes and she's just herself, no one really looks at the fact that she's a tomboy. You should try to ignore them and be yourself, and once they see how much of an awsome person you are, they'll come around. :)
2006-09-16 08:20:54 · answer #1 · answered by Answer Givererer. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn to be comfortable and love yourself. When you are comfortable with yourself, others will pick up on that vibe and will feel comfortable around you.
When I first went to college (a long, long time ago), I was a long haired metal-head. Looked like a complete dirt-bag in a college setting filled with very preppy looking and acting students. I was happy with who I was and met people that didn't mind the way I was. They could see the real me, and didn't just rely upon the outlayer that we all present to the world.
Give it time. Things will work out in the long run.
2006-09-16 08:56:15 · answer #2 · answered by tysonrf2000 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Join some clubs that interest you. Or try new activities. The more ppl you find that share your interest in these clubs or activities, you should have no problem fitting in. And besides where ever you go there is always going to be the girly girls. But you can learn some things from them too. Just cuz you are a tom boy doesn't mean you can't be pretty or assesorize.
2006-09-16 08:34:00 · answer #3 · answered by Bloody Kisses 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just continue to be yourself and they will come around. Don't be standoffish and don't be afraid to approach someone and start the conversation. No body's going to dislike you just because you're a tomboy. Be a tomboy, but don't be afraid to be a little girlie once in a while.
2006-09-16 08:22:09 · answer #4 · answered by stephenl1950 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well for one you picked to be a tomboy which isn't extremely common.So why would you expect to fit in there?And why would you want to?Don't you want to live a life that you choose or are you going to be programmed the rest of your life?In my opinion I would say just be who you are if they don't want to be around you,What have you lost?And if you try to put on a show to attract friends,They wouldn't be true friends and you will be uncomfortable with them anyways.By being yourself you will attract the best friends and have a better time.May God Bless You.
2006-09-16 08:24:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
My oldest sister did that as quickly as she substitute into approximately 13 or 14. She would positioned on men shorts, communicate, and a tshirt. She wore some makeup, and he or she would desire to pull it off noticeably a lot. i think of guy's clothing are cool. I even have lot of issues that are men'. an outstanding variety of ladies' clothing merely gags me, too. whilst it relatively is like, crimson and sparkly or has butterflies and hearts and rainbows and koala bears saying "be chuffed!". it relatively is merely no longer my form. i'd particularly positioned on shorts and a tshirt or something. I fairly do unlike small women clothing. The 5 twelve months olds look stunning, yet I hate it for myself. i'm sort of a tomboy, too. i like stuff that maximum men want. It sort of runs in our kinfolk. We become older (properly, like 13) advert initiate liking to do men stuff. we've an outstanding variety of guy acquaintances, act like our guy acquaintances, eat like them, and so on. i think of that it relatively is totally properly to have some girly-ness in you, reason that's what you're--a woman. yet men are merely so exciting and humorous! i think of it relatively is completely nice to be a tomboy. (whether you're sort of a tomboy or noticeably a lot each and each of how tomboy!) yet you will desire to be your self. do no longer hear to others hate on your form and overlook approximately those seems that folk would provide you. think of outdoors the container! Be unique. :)
2016-10-01 00:55:31 · answer #6 · answered by blumenkrantz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, there's nothing wrong with that. i was a tomboy too. And let me tell you, lot of people made fun of me. But you know what. Forget them. There judging you just buy your looks. Those are people you do not want to hang out with. if they talk to you and get to know you then they wouldn't care.
2006-09-16 09:16:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
is there not within this group a mixed set of friends........not a tomboy but sure dont like the girlie girls...always felt ill at ease, i mean I shave my legs, pluck my eyebrows throw some slap on BUT do I have to discuss it all the time ....................
Good luck with college.
2006-09-16 08:19:55 · answer #8 · answered by candy g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always be true to yourself.
2006-09-16 08:18:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
fcuk them
i a tomboy too
2006-09-16 08:17:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋