okay, ive been going out with a guy for almost a month but i never told my parents. I'm in highschool and haven't had a boyfriend before and my mom never talks to me about guys so I don't know how to go about telling her I have a boyfriend. She'll be happy about it I just don't know how or when to bring it up.
2006-09-16 07:59:50 · 9 answers · asked by brightlikestarsx 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He told me to tell my parents before my sweet 16party which is in about 3 hours, and i still haven't told them. what do i do?
2006-09-16 08:14:55 · update #1
bring her to conversation about her opinions dating and tell.
2006-09-16 08:02:49 · answer #1 · answered by prince47 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tricky one as it is a bit embarrassing.
How about tossing it over your shoulder just as you go out of the door on a date? Spend an hour in the bathroom before going out and make a big fuss about what to wear?
Seriously tho', you could drop it in the conversation while watching a romantic movie together, because it would be easier to bring the conversation round to things like boys and dating.
Alternatively, leave her a note somewhere telling her about this boy. As a parent (I speak as one myself), she'll want to know how old he is, his name, where you met him, and if he is at school with you.
I think it's great you want to tell her, and shows you two have a good relationship. I hope everything goes well with your romance.
2006-09-16 15:14:05 · answer #2 · answered by tagette 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First ask her how she got a boyfriend or tell her that you want a boyfriend (Pretend you don't have one!) and then after a few days tell her that u finally got a boyfriend but be sure to be really happy when u say it
2006-09-16 15:03:17 · answer #3 · answered by bash2cool 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her, she'll be happy you brought it up to her instead of finding out on her own.
2006-09-16 15:02:54 · answer #4 · answered by live2ride 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her if she had a b/f in high school, and ask her if she thinks its ok
notice her reaction if gd then tell her
if not then just be like my friend wants to have 1 or play it off
some other way
2006-09-16 15:11:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your mom the truth. Tell her you'd like to have her meet him, and that he's someone special.
2006-09-16 15:05:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just casually say that you met someone in school. See how she reacts, and if it's good, then gradually tell her more and more.
2006-09-16 15:02:05 · answer #7 · answered by Mommy2Liam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you can just ask her how would she feel about you having a boyfriend and take it from there. or let her figure it out herself.
2006-09-16 15:05:39 · answer #8 · answered by LaLa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at your age don't be so serious...
mention about him to your parents when u feel right to do so...
u have so much more to see
2006-09-16 16:13:37 · answer #9 · answered by ruhena_w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋