Yes ...but life goes on...its those lessons that we learn in life from the people that we allow in ...that make us the well rounded and experienced individuals . We become this from going through some things. That person that you went through that with has now equiped you with more of a standard as to what kinds of people you will allow in your life as friends...determining who your friends will be is kind of like conducting a job interview....sometimes people stick around and aquire top notch positions and then sometimes they have to be eliminated...but you now know what requirements you have as far as what kind of people you want to have around you....don't look at this as a bad experience...look at it as a learning lesson...and don't settle for less just to have someone to call you friend ....stick to your requirements ...and believe me you will keep some quality people in your life ...cause its not about how many friends you have ...but what type of people that you have as friends....ask yourself this question ....If you were stranded who would come at 4 in the morning to come and get you with no hesitation....those are the kind of people u want to know.
2006-09-16 07:50:25
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answered by Ty 4
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Yes indeed -- during my divorce, I not only had to deal with a cold hearted lying spouse but, at least as bad, MY mother and sibs blindly took HIS side, because they jumped to the conclusion I was leaving him too lightly. They have never apologized for calling ME delusional, refusing me help when I needed it, not believing and validating certain key things I told them, not looking at the whole picture before judging me and talking about me behind my back falsely... I forgive them, but I have almost no wish ever to see them again and volunteer for any more pain from them, which is more or less doable since they live five hours away. My mom broke my heart about as bad as my ex did when he never tried to save a marriage of 20 years.
2006-09-16 07:41:51
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answered by catintrepid 5
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Boy Howdy. SHYEAH.
We sacrificed moving 6 months ago and got stuck here helping our friend who got cancer. We got him a trailer and set him up in it where we were living, so that WE could drive him 50 miles round trip to treatments every single day, PLUS kept him alive, PLUS put up with his terribly rude personality and his lack of will to live, had him hospitalized twice when he would have died without it, all with a smile and asking nothing in return, and now he, after being pronounced cancer free, is still willing himself to die. He's moved to some other friends and he's doing it to them now, but he never emails or calls us. He talks behind our backs.
I would have at least liked his undying friendship after all that.
2006-09-16 13:26:01
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answered by ? 6
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2016-10-15 01:44:17
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answered by Anonymous
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Are we speaking hypothetically or litteral. In either case yes. I was screwed over horrifically.
Physically my brother burnt me once but I asked him to. Really weird story
2006-09-17 18:40:27
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answered by TRIXY 2
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yes twice,after 5 years friendship she decided not to talk to me because her new boyfriend didnt like me,well she broke up with him after a year and also she lost a good friend.Fortunately i am glad that this happened kinda soon,i wouldnt want a friend like her.she ****** up.
2006-09-16 07:41:17
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answered by Anonymous
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Yes...when i was pregnant with my youngest son I found out that my husband and my best friend were having an affair. Ouch!!!
2006-09-16 07:38:55
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answered by Anonymous
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Yep, but then I just consider those people to be a learning experience and move on.
2006-09-16 07:40:33
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answered by Wicked Wytch 2
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yes. people change and sometimes not always for the GOOD... just means, it's time to move on.
2006-09-16 07:36:14
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answered by Anonymous
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Oh yeah, more than once.
Worst one was the person I was married to.
2006-09-16 07:36:40
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answered by Anonymous
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