-my friend was 18 when she met a 29 y o from the same college. she's now 21-he's 32. They love each other.
- Although she's 21 Most people think she looks young (like 15-16).
-some people think her man's a pedophile becuse she looks young.
*Do you think she should leave him 'cause of these remarks?
*Give your opinions?
2006-09-16 07:20:36 · 11 answers · asked by sweety 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If she loves this guy she shouldn't worry about what other people say about her relationship.
2006-09-16 07:22:36 · answer #1 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am engaged to an older man, but he's so handsome. People hardly ever guess his real age anyhow. Sometimes I get told I look younger and sometimes people get my age right. However, she can not help the youthful looks God gave her. I can not help mine either. I would not leave my man. People always assume things. She should not leave him, but if she were to do such a weak thing, it would show that what other people think affects her and controls her no matter if she believes she is right and there is nothing wrong with them being together. It really is a stupid thing to break up over.
2006-09-16 14:42:34 · answer #2 · answered by Christa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was 19 when I met a 28 yr old divorcee with 2 two kids. We have been married for 7 years and been together for a total of 10 yrs now. Age doesn't matter when it is two consenting adults. I always looked and still do look much younger than my age. So I understand where you are coming from. As long as they are happy together that is all that matters. No one else has to live their lives. They have to do what makes them happy, not what makes everyone else happy.
2006-09-16 14:34:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she loves him, she shouldnt leave him. And as long as she knows and he knows that she is 21 years old, it shouldnt matter to anyone else because as far as im concerned, the its not like the people making the comments aout them have to date him or something. So I think that they should just leave them 2 alone.
2006-09-16 14:28:01 · answer #4 · answered by jigglet92 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heck naw, that would be a really cheap excuse to stop being with him. I mean in this world many ppl are going to say stuff to you and about you. Regardless if you are with someone older, different race, color and so on. Tell to keep on with him, if he trully makes her happy and vice versa, then so be it. Shut out the hateraids, they only wish they were as happy as she is.
2006-09-16 14:30:15 · answer #5 · answered by Bloody Kisses 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course not..they love eachother, is their right to do whatever they want with their lives. if we should break up and make up only after what people says we all would be a mass. my friend is 24 and her future husband is 40.. it doesn't matter the age..it matters how they get along together..they love eachother..that is all that matters
2006-09-16 16:20:40 · answer #6 · answered by dafneeselena 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why? Because of nosy people's assumptions? Thats rediculous. If they love each other, who cares what others think. If she leaves him over that, then she never loved him in the first place.
2006-09-16 14:27:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never determine your actions or your life by other peoples opinions.And remember "The older the fiddle the sweeter the tune"
2006-09-16 14:27:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
they're both grown and capable of making their own decisions! If he's the one she wants to be with then she shouldn't let what other folks have to say bother her! Tell her to go on about her business and pay those folks no mind!
2006-09-16 14:26:37 · answer #9 · answered by angellove 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOOO its her life, i mean personally if they really love each other it doesnt matter what those other people are thinking !!
2006-09-16 14:24:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋