that time she was telling i can live as hindu and she as christ (after marriage) but now she is telling i have convert to christ how can i convert 2 christ,otherwise she won't marry me what can i do plz give me any idea?
2006-09-16 07:20:23 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
dude..for god's sake..learn English...girls will come later.
2006-09-17 23:04:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Basically "religion" is a catch phrase for those who believe in a certain "thing" or "god". In your respective "religions" there are VAST differences. Religiously you have NOTHING in common because the God you serve is not the same.......AT ALL. If you know those differences I am surprised that you have asked this ? I am more surprised that you have been together for 6 years. Are you sure she was "loving you" or if she loved you like she loves everyone? This is a controversial statement that I am about to make, but actually when a couple is married the woman is the one who is "supposed" to convert. My take on this is that if the two of you cannot agree on which God to serve then you shouldn't try to MAKE it work. The Christian Bible says "how can 2 walk together unless they agree". If 2 horses carrying the same load want to go in different directions they will accomplish nothing. Grace & Peace! PS: the person that took a crack at you because of your use of the English language was obviously not "religious" at all. I understood you perfectly. Keep up the good work!
2006-09-16 07:48:22 · answer #2 · answered by CAM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand how difficult it must be. I don't want to sound insensitive at all, but I also understand how your relationship is where it is at. Loving someone of a different culture, race, age or religion is not as hard to do as some people may think. But having a long-lasting, relationship that works is a different story. Unless you convert to Christ. (which you probably don't want and will not), or she converts to Hindu (which i doubt), or you both choose another religion to share (perhaps create one), I just do not see how it can work. I know of so many failed marriages because of this issue and so few success stories.
2006-09-16 07:34:17 · answer #3 · answered by Christa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Today we are understanding the true meaning and needs of religion.Religion is all about to live happy,peacefully and spritually.Guattam budda,mahavir made his own religion by knowing the facts of a better life.you have also your own thoughts for a happy and that will your own religion others are secondary. Tell her to forget the religion because after marriage your relationship will make your marriage not the religion.And please don't change your religion because this is not a right solution.
2006-09-16 20:03:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My lovely, Respected and good brother write in proper English so that we can understand it properly. O.K. Just convert urself if u love truly. But test her also becoz I think she loves religion more than u. So just think about it.
2006-09-16 07:25:48 · answer #5 · answered by Harshal M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should not ask you to switch after 6 years. If she truly loves you, she will accept you as you are. Tell her you want her to change...see how she likes that. You've been together too long to break up over this, but she should ASK not demand this of you.
2006-09-16 07:36:55 · answer #6 · answered by shynomore 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all u have to understand one thing true love is unconditional if u r love is condtioned for relgion then u have to speak with ur girl when u have security of life that means if u earn and if u r capable of run the life then u can say strongly to ur girl and make understand her
2006-09-16 17:46:08 · answer #7 · answered by benjamine frangline the junior 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If religion is more important than your love, move on to someone else.
NO woman is worth that kind of stupidity (unless stupidity turns you on).
Me, it would kill my ardor like a bucket of ice water. Instantly!
2006-09-16 07:23:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u cannot how u expect her 2 do
2006-09-16 19:24:07 · answer #9 · answered by indian beauty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so u wanna say that religion is more important than ur true love!!!!???? are u dumb and idiot at the same time???
2006-09-20 06:38:11 · answer #10 · answered by suchetana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋