I am in college 3 hours away from my girlfriend.. Shes just a senior in HS.. After being away for 2 weeks I leave school and go straight to her house.. Its always a thing for me to sleep when I get to her house.. The 3 hour drives makes me sleepy.. I wasnt feelin to sharp after I woke up.. Her friends had come and we were gonna meet them at the movies a few hours later.. I started feelin real bad.. So I went back to her bed and fell asleep again.. She couldnt go with her friends to the movies cause I was in her room feelin like crap.. She fell asleep with me.. I got up at 10:00pm and left.. I feel bad that she couldnt go out because of me.. I told thank you for watchin me, she assured me she didnt mind.. I still feel sick today.. What should I do or say to her?? Cause I feel bad about it..
2006-09-16 07:17:28 · 6 answers · asked by dicktracey77061 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I am one who frequently buys flowers or sends packages.. And Im just a freshman in college.. And I love her..
2006-09-16 07:20:05 · update #1
I think I have something like the flu... Colleges are dirty..
2006-09-16 07:26:34 · update #2
You were sick that first time, so your girlfriend did the right thing and stayed behind to care for you even though you both fell asleep. Don't feel bad, those who love one another will care for one another. Being said, there should be no bad feelings, and she even said she didn't mind it. Now your still sick, you can handle it on your own so your girlfriend is free to do whatever, but I'm sure she know's that if your condition hits critical that she will be there by your side. So, all is well and will end well, just focus on your health cause that needs more of your attention for now.
2006-09-16 07:28:53 · answer #1 · answered by Divo Saint 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't feel bad because you were sick and it was nothing you could do about it. It would be a different thing if you was just being selfish for the heck of it. She just showed you how much she loves you too. You got some people that would have left you there sleeping.So think of it as a good thing and call her today and let her know how you are feeling. I'm pretty sure she wants to know.
2006-09-16 14:30:02 · answer #2 · answered by devandb 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would want to be there for my baby if he was feeling bad. She knows you didn't mean to feel like crap. You should not keep apologizing or thanking her, but a couple of more times shouldn't hurt. You could send her a sweet card or email. You should see a doctor if you feel very bad or evaluate your symptoms and get the corresponding medicine.
2006-09-16 14:25:25 · answer #3 · answered by Christa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She could of still went with her friends but she chose to stay with you. Don't feel bad about it, everyone gets sick. Just return the favor for her sometime when she is sick.
2006-09-16 14:21:28 · answer #4 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she said she didn't mind, then there shouldn't be anything to worry about. If she actually stayed on her free will/without arguing about wanting to go, then she must have wanted to stay with you.
Just let her know that you're sorry, and since you feel bad about it, you'd be willing to make it up to her.
2006-09-16 14:21:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats what people do when they love each other!! you need to accept that!!! you across cant help it u feel sick>>shell understand if she loves you!! sometimes when u are far from thwe one u love ..it really doesnt matter what u do together!! its soo exciting just being with the person..even if it is just taking care of them!!
2006-09-16 14:23:54 · answer #6 · answered by chas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋