last time me and my ex talked I told her that I would bring her stuff over and we could just end this roller coaster ride. Upon dropping her stuff off she told me that she was sorry that it ended like this I asked her if that ment it was over she said yes. Here's the thing their was somethings that I was unable to bring because I forgot and didn't know I still had and a salon sink that needed to be disconnected. I put her things in a pile called her and left a message that I would be out of town for the weekend and that she could come get the rest of her things, she later called me back and left a message that she couldn't make it and then left her a message that to call me when you want the rest of your things.
Is it possible that she doesn't want to pick her things up because that would cut all ties and finalize the relationship which she is not ready to do? These are things i know she wants. its been 2wks since we talked. Nobodys that busy or is she being lazy.
2006-09-16 07:15:40 · 6 answers · asked by swampass34 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If it was me and I wasn't over you, I'd definitely leave something behind so I'd have an excuse to go back. That would give me a reason to see you without letting you know I actually WANTED to see you. If I wanted to sever all ties, I would have picked up my stuff immediately so I wouldn't have to see you again. She's definitely NOT over you.
2006-09-16 07:20:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's leaving her things there because she can. You...are...ready to move on with your life, for whatever reason she's procrastinating. Remember, it's not your job to find out why; you've already broken-up. You must take a stand and make it your business to seal the deal, take all of her stuff to her house even if you have to hire someone to disconnect the sink. Like Nike, "Just do it."
2006-09-16 07:21:48 · answer #2 · answered by Divo Saint 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she dont wont it to be over so i think you right i think you se d shes not ready well i told my fiance that when you first got to getther he sed that he would give me *** muck time asss i needed he would help he be ready and thin i figerd out that i was just scard to be hert so if she been hert be for then that could be y shes not ready
2006-09-16 07:23:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I think that she is delaying picking her things up because that makes it all final. If you really want the things gone then you should take them to her.
2006-09-16 07:18:28 · answer #4 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her and tell her she has until a certain date to get her things or else you will get rid of them yourself. Do not try to analyze things, get on with your life and leave this in the past where it belongs.
2006-09-16 07:28:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be possible that she had moved on and doesn't have the time to bother with left-overs.
2006-09-16 07:18:33 · answer #6 · answered by Emm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋