like, if you're a woman who, for whatever reason, feels a somehwat trapped or restrained in a relationship and decided to finally take advantage of an outside oppurtunity, what it like? i'm asking, what's the experience like? what's the most exciting part? what are you thinking? what's it feel like? etc - - - - - -
2006-09-16 07:12:23 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Why?
2006-09-16 07:14:52 · answer #1 · answered by tina m 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
UM it's like a new found love. You find out you can have fun wit a person again. I had an affair for a few months and felt like I had started a brand new relationship. Love it at the time. And the part of keeping from my husband(and his wife) made it better. But in the end when all things out on the table I lost one of my friends(which I shoulda never started a "relationship" with in the first place) and my marriage was all wacked out for a while. But things go back to normal but it will always come up when you get in to it.
2006-09-16 14:17:02 · answer #2 · answered by lillady 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sorry, this is not from personal experience
but from my best friend
she was married to the only man she ever being with
after 11 year she had an affair
she said it was the best thing that she ever doen for herself
although now that she is divorce, she said that it was because of htat affair that she was possitive on how he (hus) was such a bad lover
she always felt that something was not right about their sex life
but she never knew how wonderful sex could be
she also said that hse prefer to be by herself than a bad Lover
2006-09-16 14:46:10 · answer #3 · answered by waiting for baby 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would never do it. If I am unhappy in a relationship - I will get out first -THEN look for love elsewhere. Having affairs is a coward's way out. People who do that either want the affair itself to be discovered so their partner will end the relationship or they have no respect for their partner's feelings whatsoever. If I ever got to that point in a relationship I would have the guts to come face to face with my partner and express my discontent. Affairs hurt ALL involved.
2006-09-16 14:37:53 · answer #4 · answered by arkiemom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's incredible, especially if you're bored in your marriage and tired of the same old thing everytime you have sex. A new guy, an illicit affair, the sneaking around, it's all so exciting. But yeah, I'm curious, why do you ask, sweetheart?
2006-09-16 23:33:39 · answer #5 · answered by Lacey H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No woman in her right mind (in a relationship) is going to answer this!!! Altho I've heard a new "experience" could be quite
fantastic!!!
2006-09-16 14:30:23 · answer #6 · answered by POPPY 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get used to being alone......she'll never go back to you
2006-09-16 14:16:14 · answer #7 · answered by the boss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋