this is a honest question to a real problem. It seems that society has put labels on me that I can't shake. My familly has money and I am labeled as a rich snob and thats not the case. I am really, really smart and people don't want to talk to me because they don't think they can relate. I am a quiet person but not insecure, just laid back. For this people think I am arrogant. I do not have any vices and people think that I am weird. I am fairly good looking so people are intimadated. Let me give you an example?
I have a close female friend, and we get along really great. So one day I asked her if we did not work together and meetoutside, would we still be friends? She said no, so I asked why. She said because people like me do not talk to people like her. So what do I do? Its hard living a life alone because they are afraid to talk to you. People do not talk to me but once they do they tend like me?
I don't want to change who i am but I dont want to be alone?
what to do
2006-09-16 07:05:07 · 4 answers · asked by snowteller 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
no, i am not perfect but I do try to live a very pure life. I am happy to say that I do a pretty good job. And I am very proud of this fact. I think it is about have a good amount of self controll
2006-09-16 07:22:58 · update #1
It sounds like those people are not worth worrying about. They are narrow minded imbeciles and don't deserve the time of day. There are people out there who treat people with respect and dignity. Maybe try going to a restaurant or bar where nobody knows you. Let them get to know the kind you and the original you. I truly believe it is not what is on the outside that matters but rather what is inside. Another word for those imbeciles is morombeciles. It sounds like they all fit this title. They probably lost all their brain cells when they bent their head to the side and they slid out their ears! Don't let these people make you feel less than you are. The truth is they are JEALOUS and are LOSING out big time!
2006-09-16 07:18:06 · answer #1 · answered by priscillailla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you put on a disguise ..wigs or shabby clothes and go mingle with the common folk..Its a start..Im feeling for you ..im a little bit on the attractive side myself and I have zero friends 2..I think you just got to meet someone who likes u the way you are..Pray...
2006-09-18 22:36:32 · answer #2 · answered by dreamy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just do not seem to have any FAULTS like the rest of us.Could that BE the reason ? Take a LONG Look at yourself .People Have to Have some FAULTS or bad habits NO one is JUST PERFECT..Come down to EARTH..and YOU could be MY friend.....GOOD LUCK.
2006-09-16 14:18:47 · answer #3 · answered by Terry 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I can't know
2006-09-16 14:23:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋