okay, my best friend thinks she was sexually harassed by a couple of my guy friends. She asked me for advise when it happened and i told her to just let it go because she wasnt sexually harassed. all the guys wanted wuz a little kiss and they even asked her if she would kiss them back and she said yes but when it actually came down to it she didnt want to do it so she backed off and so did they. the both guys did it at different times (btw). so i told her to just let it go becuase it wasnt sexually harassed. so i had to go to the bathroom so she went to other friend and she dragged her to the school advisor and told her everything. after that, my two guy friends were suspended for two days but now there back. my best friend wants me to be with her like 24/7 and i just cant put my life on hold for her. she wants me to like make sure that she doesnt bump into them but like there my friends......what do i do???
2006-09-16 07:03:10 · 9 answers · asked by MKEitWRK 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You tell ur friend that they didn't sexually harrased and tell her that ur stil friends with them and if she don't like it oh well!!
2006-09-16 07:08:47 · answer #1 · answered by momo13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-27 02:35:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to face it..ur there for her but not 24/7.
If she runs into them..tell her to make up an excuse like ihave 2 go or whatever..she shouldn't be shy over this..that was not sexual harrassment if they didn't do anything..
2006-09-16 07:08:17 · answer #3 · answered by saweet_chick_lee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whether you want to admit it or not, it was wrong for your friends to act like that. Anytime someone comes at you in a sexual manner and makes you feel uncomfortable, that is harassment. I think you need to consider that your friend needs you and if you are her friend you have a responsibility to be there for her.
2006-09-16 07:07:36 · answer #4 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it was just a kiss ur girlfriend is tripping!! if it was more shes got a legit beef.anyway,its just a kiss........how old r u? 14???????? ur friend's been watching too much tv.... it doesnt sound like much to me...if they stuck some fingers in her cooch or something,then it would b serious
2006-09-16 07:09:43 · answer #5 · answered by Shnitzel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her. talk to your guy friends. if your friend is to clingy, talk to your guy friends and dont be afraid to. she has another friend doesnt she? just tell her that you dont want to stop being her friend, you just want to hang out with your other friends too. sorry, that was a little confusing wasnt it?
2006-09-16 07:05:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to get a life and stop being a snitch.
2006-09-16 07:19:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you gotta do the right thing and that is tell her how you feel and that she has to get over it but say it in a nice way, same thing has happend to me.
2006-09-16 07:10:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try very hard to stay out of this
2006-09-16 07:06:43 · answer #9 · answered by blondguy92 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋