ok, i like this guy, but i think i'm the shyest girl ever and he's kinda shy too. well, my friend was telling him that i like him. but i don't want to go out with him because i just want to be friends cause if we go out and we break up then we're not friends anymore. but if we're just friends then we can be friends forever. what should i do so i could talk to him without him thinking that i'm only talking to him because i like him.
2006-09-16 06:29:44 · 14 answers · asked by iloveducks_99 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Just let things naturally come together, dont push or rush, sometimes in life u have to take chances even if they are ones u might regret later. What if u guys didnt get together and there was that possiblity that u would have had somethign great together then you would have never known?? or theres the negative side to it that things could go wrong and ruin your friendship, either way i guess you have to decide whats more important to you and what you are willing to risk.
2006-09-16 06:47:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't have a friend who is not close to you. The best thing is for both of you to meet and start your friendship. I think you can take the bull by the horns by engaging him in a casual discussion the next time you meet. Then, you may go to a secluded place where there will be no interruption. You just need to talk about things to be sure whether you're really compartible or not. Think about this.
2006-09-16 13:40:21 · answer #2 · answered by mykemejeje 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a question is ur name reneighneigh because if it is this is deezy!!! Crazy huh. oh well. UM if u really like the guy and want to be friends don't go our with him because i had a friend and i told him i liked him and now everything is totally awkward!HEy if this is Reneighneigh then my email is mycatkeekers@yahoo.com
2006-09-16 13:37:20 · answer #3 · answered by good girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh tell him the truth and how you feel. Be friends with benifits that always works for a little while! Just dont let your feelings get involved!
2006-09-16 13:32:13 · answer #4 · answered by Ash 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm....confuse i was best friends with this guy and we went out and then broke up and now we arent friends anymore and it hurts so much cause i really love him amyways if it is mean to b he will make the first move
2006-09-16 13:34:14 · answer #5 · answered by iheartcoolcaconxoxoxo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it slow!
Enjoy this time, and don't anticipate too much. You could be friends a long time and date a little bit too.
Good luck!
2006-09-16 13:34:25 · answer #6 · answered by nora22000 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get to know him the really good friendships are the best marriages later on.
2006-09-16 13:35:26 · answer #7 · answered by mizsinister 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends are forever. Enjoy what you have together. Follow your heart.
2006-09-16 13:38:46 · answer #8 · answered by WheelchairBA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him and tell him how you feel, and why. The truth is all ways the best way.
2006-09-16 13:35:24 · answer #9 · answered by wanita m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HAVE PATIENCE, A SOLUTION WILL SOON COME BY. IN THE MEANTIME ALWAYS LOOK GOOD WHEN HE IS AROUND, AND RESPOND WITH CARE TO WHATEVER HE SAYS, BUT DO WHAT YOU WANT AND KINDLY.
2006-09-16 13:35:38 · answer #10 · answered by chandrasanyal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋