If so, what were the reasons?
Is is still ongoing?
What would it take for you to pack it in?
2006-09-16 06:23:44 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I have...and let me tell you....I am going through therapy. i am going through a divorce and i am literraly depressed. My husband was deployed this april and took him leaving for me to realize that I was still in love with him. ALso I live with guilt and regret everyday of my life. My daughter hears me crying everyday and night behind closed doors for her father. Her father moved on......I am in a abusive relationship now all because of my selfishness. Dont....Dont make the same mistake I did. I had a good wonderful man and I lost him. Dont lose a diamond searching for a rock.
2006-09-16 06:30:36 · answer #1 · answered by Butterfly 1 · 7⤊ 1⤋
No, I have never cheated on my husband. Nor have I ever been tempted. I can honestly say that I have married my best friend. No, I am not a newlywed and I have been married to him for 8 years, and we were friends long before we were married. I have been through some really rough times with my husband, but I think when you truly love someone, there will not be an opportunity for someone else to tempt you into an affair. This is just my opinion. Also, I will add that if by chance I did become attracted to another man and wished to act upon it, I would not be selfish to sneak around and cheat on my husband, but I would be open and honest to let him know that was developing feelings for another man...long before the chance of an affair could occur.
2006-09-16 06:36:31 · answer #2 · answered by iam1shoppindiva 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been with my husband now for about 6 years and no I have never cheated. Have I ever fantasized absolutley. I learned from my first husband whom I cheated on many times that when you cheat you only cheat yourself. The first time I did it I knew it was over, but I convinced myself that it wasnt. I didnt want to believe that I was a failure so I stayed with him. Then I cheated so much that it became a game of trying to outrun myself. It eventually ended finally when I called it quits, but alot of emotional karma has followed me. I felt guilty for what I did but couldnt help it because when I was in the arms of another man I felt alive and whole. I never felt that way with my husband there was always something lacking. But I was too damn scared to face the idea of being alone, and raising a child by myself. I hurt alot of people doing it this way. But I also learned how to be honest with myself. It is all a journey everything we do all the bad choices we make in the past allows us to make better ones in the future. So with that said the second time around I chose a man that I love and feel alive when I am in his arms. This way I know if it ends I dont have to carry the guilt of betrayal I wish you well
2006-09-16 06:46:14 · answer #3 · answered by fryedaddy 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No. We've been married almost 16 years & no, I have never been close to tempted. He is a hottie & of course, there are other guys around who are cute or whatever, but I comitted to live & build a life with this one - besides, the grass is NOT greener on the other side! Grow up!
2006-09-16 06:28:51 · answer #4 · answered by Forever 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I have never cheated on my husband. We've been married for 5 years and we were together 5 years before getting married.
I believe in treating people how I would like to be treated. And I respect him and myself too much for that.
Plus, he's REALLY good in bed, so why look elsewhere?
2006-09-16 06:27:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was married for 10 years, and I never cheated on my husband per se, but I was tempted several times. As it got to be almost ludicrous, I decided it was best to end the relationship altogether than to continue with someone who was dumb as a rock and about as responsive.
2006-09-16 06:25:59 · answer #6 · answered by nora22000 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No.
Obviously no.
I think if a married person is or wants to cheat, he or she need to provide the respect the other spouse deserves and be honest. I have been on the "cheated on" side of the equation and it is devastating.
2006-09-16 06:27:05 · answer #7 · answered by lovemcss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Reason: Boredom. Ongoing: Yup. End the marriage? No. My boyfriend doesn't seem to want to end his marriage, so why should I end mine? As long as no one finds out, no one gets hurt. Live a little!
2006-09-16 16:38:12 · answer #8 · answered by Lacey H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my reason was for a change & the excitement of it. no it's not ongoing. We are still together for 15 years.
2006-09-16 06:48:20 · answer #9 · answered by sherriecrazyhome 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never!
If I ever wanted to be with another man, I would have to leave my husband and get a divorce first. In your vows, you agreed to: "until death parts us" or "until death do us part".
Why bother getting married if you are going to cheat on your husband?
2006-09-16 06:35:35 · answer #10 · answered by katie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋