OMG! i'm freakin' confused! i know i keep asking questons about this but i don't know what to do about my guy friend! he's been text messaging me, but all they've been saying is"how are you" and "what are you doing right now" and last but not least "meet me at the tables". i realy like him and we've been friends for seven years. but last year some of his other friends told me he liked me. i'm so confused! what should i do?
2006-09-16 06:17:02 · 13 answers · asked by (Beautiful Disaster) 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
we're both thirteen and just started being able to date.
2006-09-16 06:34:34 · update #1
Either date him or tell him you're only interested in being friends. Don't hide or ignore him. Just be firm but nice about it and it should stop.
2006-09-16 06:19:30 · answer #1 · answered by crazz_32 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you need to decide your true feelings for him. Do you like him as a friend only or more. If you like him as a friend only you want to make sure he knows that. My neighbor liked me growing up, but I felt like he was a brother to me. He was hurt at first, but we have been close friends for years now. I was even in his wedding. If you "try" to have feelings for him just because he has feelings for you, he will be hurt worse. Also remember sometimes the best relationships start out as friends.
2006-09-16 09:47:21 · answer #2 · answered by first-time_mom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm he is your friend for several years and he likes you, how come he never asked you on a date or to be his girlfriend? or he is waiting for you to make first move? I'm also confused, but you should talk to the guy and find out what is going on...
2006-09-16 06:22:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it would be best to just keep being friends with him because if you go out with him and it doesn't work out you will have lost your best Friend and you want have a boy Friend either .Also don 't always listen to the gossip of your friend
2006-09-16 07:38:25 · answer #4 · answered by Les 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like him, go out with him - as long as you are old enough to do so and he is not much older than you.
2006-09-16 06:30:22 · answer #5 · answered by Foo Foo Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is you really really like him you should try asking him out and if you get the first kiss the first night is that he really really likes you.but maybe your friends are lieing.but if you like him a little you should keep being his friend
2006-09-16 06:25:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit down and talk to him about it. If you don' t feel the same way he needs to know.
2006-09-16 06:19:52 · answer #7 · answered by amy b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him out boyz like tat execpt if u r really ugly
2006-09-16 07:07:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask him if he likes you then if he does go out with him
2006-09-16 06:25:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So are you saying that you're NOT interested in dating him? If you're not interested in him "like that" then you should tell him so.
2006-09-16 06:19:30 · answer #10 · answered by pamgissa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋