why get divorced? well, we got married cus thot we were in luv but turns out he was an alcoholic & i just got married & had a baby because i felt my clock ticking (girls don't listen to that clock do what you want) love my son madly so we still have to communicate but he's a bit better, in AA and on meds for depression. i have a new boyfriend, someone who i've known for 6 years, and we are taking things very slow. have been separated for over 1 year and am supporting myself and my son Latin. had to claim bankruptcy because ex spent bill money on drinking and drugs, but am very positive that everything will end up okay. have lots of family support, (even from the ex's side) so am i happy that i don't have to live with that anymore? you bet i am. will i try my darndest to communicate for my sons sake? yes i will. but it's very hard to forgive some things don't you agree??
2006-09-16 05:38:23 · 12 answers · asked by latinsmama 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sounds like you are making the best of a bad situation and I luv your positive attitude and the maturity that you are showing. You need to be commended. There's no doubt in my mind that your headed for better times and you'll be fine in the near future.
Good luck with everything.....your well on your way to happiness.
Just my thoughts.....
2006-09-16 06:39:41 · answer #1 · answered by Tony 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh yes I do agree
It sounds like you have it together and good for you!!
My ex is an A s s there is no communicating with him I have tried and tried I have come to the point I don't even talk with him he isn't interested in what his children are doing so I stopped trying and have to support ourselves also! Hang in there girl and good luck in life and in your relationship!!!
lol
2006-09-16 12:43:21 · answer #2 · answered by daack7 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ex's are a pain in the ***. I hate mine. Good luck chica. Some things are not forgivable I totally agree and it's your right to not forgive if you truly feel that you shouldn't. Forgiveness is highly overrated in some instances I think.
2006-09-16 13:31:55 · answer #3 · answered by Xander's Mom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yup.. i can tell it's been hard on you.. but you are still very positive.. take good care of your son and rmb to love him with all your heart and do not vent your anger on him.. he can feel it and he may turn rebellious one day.. i wish you all the best .. and always look on the bright side and make the best out of the situation.. kip in mind that for every one min of anger, you'll loose 60 seconds of happiness.. best wishes
2006-09-16 12:46:06 · answer #4 · answered by nicole 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to move on with your life you need to forgive. It's not always easy to forgive, but you are only hurting yourself by holding it in. Even when you forgive that doesn't mean that you have to forget.
2006-09-16 12:42:05 · answer #5 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do agree that its hard to forget somethings but forgiveness, you can do, you can't harbour grudges no matter how warranted they are. Just let it go, it takes to much energy to stay mad anyway.
2006-09-16 12:49:10 · answer #6 · answered by Monie D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave and fast and stay away only to get worse if u stay around,now you will have a life and fun to time will heal.
2006-09-16 12:42:43 · answer #7 · answered by pirateron 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To forgive is admirable to forget is stupid at least your moving on.
2006-09-16 12:56:33 · answer #8 · answered by mizsinister 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree, although I couldn't follow any of your question, too confusing.
2006-09-16 12:41:24 · answer #9 · answered by live2ride 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You better believe it.
2006-09-16 12:43:00 · answer #10 · answered by teulonbranchlibrary 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋