This is probably going to sound retarded, but I've done a little calculating and if I'm right I got pregnant on my husbands birthday, he's not big on celebrating it since he turned 30 this year (not a big deal right!) so I don't know if he'd be happy or not. He's over the moon about the baby (even though he thinks it's twins!) and already driving me nuts with the "How are you feeling?" questions, but do you think he'd like to know that?
2006-09-16 05:30:14 · 23 answers · asked by justwondering 5 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Hahaha, I hadn't thought about this question along the lines of covering up an infidelity, but no that is not the case. I was my husband's present since he said I couldn't buy him one!! And now we're getting a little added bonus :)
2006-09-16 05:47:00 · update #1
Oh, it can't hurt! You might be surprised how "funny" he might find it! All you did was have sex on his birthday (good girl) and it looks like that deed did the deed! :)
He may not be big about the celebration of his birthday - but he'll probably enjoy the news that his birthday "present" made a new child.
Good luck with that new baby(ies)!
2006-09-16 05:36:19 · answer #1 · answered by InnerBeauty28 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No there's nothing wrong with that if you wanna share that with him. And a baby is more than a gift any day. And tell your husband not to feel bad about turning 30. Thank god that live to see 30 cause he probably can't say that for alot lf people he know cause they probably did not even make to see 30. While you two are talking one night just strike up the night of his birthday. And begin telling him the good news that the baby was conceived on his birthday. Cause men don't think about or keep up with things like that.
2006-09-16 12:57:11 · answer #2 · answered by tessie35 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that would be wonderful news, added on to the good news you have already! It will probably be a special thing the two of you remember, like a little romantic secret. I see nothing wrong with telling him, I'd say go for it! Congratulations, btw! :)
2006-09-16 12:40:28 · answer #3 · answered by lilblondiebear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him. At the very least, he will probably think that it's cool that the baby was conceived on his birthday. It might even give him a reason to like his birthday again.
2006-09-16 12:39:44 · answer #4 · answered by lj1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congratulation! It is a girl thing. Just wait. Write it in your journal for now and let it be something you share with him later. Like after the baby is born and you really know for sure that it did happen on that day. Sharing it on you child's first birthday would make it more special to your dear Hubby.
2006-09-16 12:36:01 · answer #5 · answered by bethshome7 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
um...I told my husband when I concieved and he didn't remember a week later....I think he's more happy about the baby than he'll care about when it was concieved.
UNLESS you're hinting without saying you slept with someone else that night. I doubt it though....But if you're gonna say "I got pregnant on your birthday" but you didn't have sex....you might want to re-think your wording.
:)
congrats on the baby....I'm not accusing you of anything, just covering my bases!
2006-09-16 12:43:27 · answer #6 · answered by Mrs. Lucky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We tried that! Turned out I got pregnant before his birthday though. I wanted to tell him that day, but I got a false negative. I was so sad. Anyway, I would tell him! It is kinda after-the-fact, but it is still nice!
2006-09-16 13:35:30 · answer #7 · answered by emmadropit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can tell him. It's not like the baby will be born on that date.
He still has it in him if he can make a baby at 30 :]
2006-09-16 14:13:39 · answer #8 · answered by ☼ becki ☼ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes tell him, who knows maybe it would make celebrating his birthday every year alittle better. if he's excited about having a baby what could it hurt?? It'll probably just make him even more happy!!!
Good luck with your pregnancy
2006-09-16 12:34:25 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him, maybe he'll change his opinion about how bad this bday was, Congrats on the baby
2006-09-16 12:38:36 · answer #10 · answered by Baby Ruth habla español 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋