She says hes an illegal mexican but hes not even mexican. I tell her hes not but she says hes dirty nasty ect. well shes not dating him I am. Just because hes tan skin doesnt make him a mexican but she says he has a mexican face. Hes sexy but my mom hates him
2006-09-16 05:24:02 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
I'm sorry, but your mother is going to find anything wrong with any guy.
He's toooo pale
He's toooo fat
He's toooo dark etc. etc.
Your mother just believes no one is good enough for you.
2006-09-16 05:34:30 · answer #1 · answered by Keith Perry 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about what your mom has to say. He's your guy not her's. I'm Mexican and have to deal with that all the time. Tell her how you feel about the way she treats him. Tell her She raised you to be kind, considerate and accepting, and that she should be the same. Tell her that just because he looks Mexican doesn't mean he is and even if he were Mexican it doesn't make him an illegal immigrant.
2006-09-16 06:40:06 · answer #2 · answered by loco_chick1989 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How previous are you? Do you stay at the same time with your mom? if you're lower than 18 and stay at abode, you've a difficulty. Is you mom prepared to get to entice close your bf? My mom is likewise really racist. I once had a celebration and some African American childrens confirmed up or perhaps as they left she made an enormous deal about the actual undeniable reality that she now had to throw out the glasses they'd used cuz they were contaminated.
2016-11-27 02:25:56 · answer #3 · answered by akerley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometime when you both are not angry ask your mother why she is upset about your dating/seeing someone who is different from your own ethnic background. Listen to what she says. You don't have to agree, but you need to understand what her problem with it is. Also, ask what her problem is with this particular boy. Has he done or said anything to make her not like him?
You don't have to be racist, even if she is. However, if you are underage, you may have to wait until you are on your own to make your choices about who to date/marry/etc. While you live at home, you are under parent's authority. Once you are independent of them, you can choose your own way. However, you may find that they shun you if you do. (been there, done that).
Also, ask yourself if you are dating the boy because you like him, or because it makes your mom nuts. Be fair to the guy. Don't use him as a gig against your mom.
2006-09-16 05:44:33 · answer #4 · answered by Aunt Biwi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he dirty? Is there a real reason in addition to her racist comments? If it's all racially based, take it that way, but if she has real reasons, listen to them.
Ignore what's useless and pare out anything that's relevant and important.
2006-09-16 05:56:51 · answer #5 · answered by ICARRESS 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Youir mum is just conserned, but it doesn't make it right for her to be racist...how old are you and this guy? If you and him really love eachother, then there u have it, love!!! And you shouldnt let anyone live your life, it sucks, lol, trust me...i wish you and him luck. (And what does he think of this?)
2006-09-16 05:34:10 · answer #6 · answered by [Muffin.Monster] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give your mom the song :the dark side3 of the Moon!
iao.John-John.
2006-09-16 05:28:36 · answer #7 · answered by John-John 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is her prob with Mexicans?
2006-09-16 06:36:50 · answer #8 · answered by June smiles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's all right. Your mother does not live forever nor is she live in order to take control of your life. Use your own judgment to live your life.
It's your life, nobody is living it for you.
2006-09-16 05:30:41 · answer #9 · answered by ? 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Your mother sounds like a racist fukc.
2006-09-16 05:26:52 · answer #10 · answered by Devil'sadvocate 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋