That people ask questions on here, especially about their marriage, and just choose the best answer that is just telling them what they want to hear? I would think if you are asking for opinions and want to learn a thing or two about relationships you try to be open to everyone's answer not just what YOU want to hear. No wonder some people complain that their marriage suck, yea we see how you really are that's why it sucks!
2006-09-16 05:23:16 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
not funny at all I think that people cant recognize their real problems most times
Good Luck and God Bless!!
2006-09-16 07:23:12 · answer #1 · answered by msqtech 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is just human nature to want validation. Sure - most people have already made up their minds, but Answers can help reassure them - especially when they are isolated or don't have friends or family they feel they can talk to. There are also those people who might be on t he fence and use these answers to sway them one way or another. That's why I think people who do give answers should try to be as thoughtful as possible. When we give "flip" answers you never know the mental state of the person asking. I don't feel like I am one to judge if a person is asking an unimportant question.
2006-09-16 06:10:26 · answer #2 · answered by arkiemom 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
People are not looking for answers to their questions. You are right, they already know what they want to do. They are looking for justification of their actions, or approval of same.
It seems unreasonable in some respects to let unknown individuals make decisions about your life, based on partial information of any given situation. So maybe some people use it as a reality check to make sure they fit into the majority of the norm of society.
It's like watching the Jerry Springer show, you are repulsed and fascinated all at the same time.
2006-09-16 06:28:49 · answer #3 · answered by rascal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES YOU'RE 100% CORRECT. I TOLD YOU WHAT YOU WANTED TO HEAR NOW GIMME MY 10 POINTS.
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Let people live man. Not everyone does that. I have to admit, a lot of people do, but the mature adults (key words: mature adults) look for a balanced, neutral response that suits both parties. Not just what only helps them.
2006-09-16 05:28:32 · answer #4 · answered by Rivrav 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yup that is exactly what happens. The pick the answer that hurts them the least which is mostly the answer that is furthest to the truth
2006-09-16 05:30:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, if that is the case, I'd like to see who you pick for this question as best answer.
2006-09-16 06:15:36 · answer #6 · answered by Carrie! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kind of negative today, aren't we?
2006-09-16 06:22:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
funny but true lol
2006-09-16 05:42:14 · answer #8 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree
2006-09-16 05:28:34 · answer #9 · answered by tweetypie88888 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yep lol
2006-09-16 05:25:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋