i have a feeling my bf doesnt like me again b.c. i always want to talk about us..and he keeps saying idk..and he said not yet..b.c. me and him never see eachother unless it has to do with the baby...and i just dont want to get hurt again...b.c. he brokeup with me when i was pregnant at 5m..than asked me back out a month l8ter an idiot like iam i took him back b.c. he said he was sorry and all this other stuff like he realized..and all..and so now it feels like he's acting like im not important to him again and it hurts cuz it feels like he doesnt...and im just upset also b.c. there was a couple of guys that really liked me and i said no to going out with them after he broke up with me..and the guys new i was pregnant..and there was this really nice guy that really like me and im mad b.c. if my bf would have just let me go ..i would have just moved on..from there..even though it was really hard...trying to but i was feeling better..and now im back to where i was before..
2006-09-16 05:13:59 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
and i dont think i can handle geting hurt by him again...it hurts.....so can anyone help me because i really dont know what to do anymore....
2006-09-16 05:15:38 · update #1
honey, get over him!!! he doese'nt know how relationships work so any relatinoship he has is'nt going to work. it's that simple. move on there is someone out there that wants you and the baby.
2006-09-16 05:24:09 · answer #1 · answered by missy mo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, you need to move on. I don't think he wants to talk about "us" because as far as he is concerned there is no "us" to talk about. If a guy is going to dump you when your five months pregnant, that pretty much shows you his true character.
Look at it this way. Your boyfriend broke up with you when you were five months pregnant. That's a really shitty thing to do. But you had TWO other guys who liked you and wanted to go out with you even while you were pregnant with another guy's baby. That says a lot about their character, and that they are probably nice and kind guys, your boyfriend, on the other hand, sounds like a real pin-head.
If he is making you feel unimportant, he probably thinks that you are unimportant. He can say he's sorry all he wants, but if he still acts like an a-s-s, then he's not sorry at all.
Stop waiting for your boyfriend to let you go. YOU need to be the one to let him go. I know it's hard and it sucks, and for a while you may feel pretty crappy, but eventually you will see that you made the right choice. YOU need to be strong and happy for your baby, if nothing else.
Good luck to you.
2006-09-16 12:26:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK - I'm assuming that by the way you wrote your question, you are very young. Get over this guy. Have your baby. Live your life. Whether you choose to keep the baby or give it up for adoption, is up to you, but whichever you choose to do, do it without this guy. He's going to continue to leave and come back the way he's doing now, because you will continue to let him. Don't let him hurt you any more, just move on without him.
2006-09-16 12:27:06 · answer #3 · answered by mamafence 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A sentence somewhere would be nice.
Really, if you want people to answer your questions, you have to make them readable and not trying to decepher the silly short talk you are using.
2006-09-16 12:16:59 · answer #4 · answered by sarah071267 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You know what to do you just want someone to tell you it's okay to do it.
So I'm telling you...it's okay. Go have a life without this jerk.
2006-09-16 12:17:26 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good grief, posts without punctuation are just so annoying.
2006-09-16 12:15:58 · answer #6 · answered by live2ride 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
honey, get over him!!!
2006-09-16 12:26:05 · answer #7 · answered by janan_net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋