I have been scared to get intimate with my husband. After the second time, I bled some. Is this normal? Should I not get intimate again?
2006-09-16 05:09:51 · 17 answers · asked by first-time_mom 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
It is perfectly normal to have some bleeding after intercourse at this point. As my nurse midwife said "go for it!". She encouraged intercourse as long as we wanted - even suggested it to help induce labor when we were further along (don't worry, it won't make you go into labor earlier than you should - supposedly it just helps regulate contractions). The bleeding just comes from your husband bumping against your cervix, which is engorged with blood at this point [the cervix, although I guess it applies both ways;-)]. Unless you are bleeding a great deal, don't worry about it - you won't hurt the baby.
2006-09-16 05:25:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I was intimate with my husband right up until the day I had my daughter, I dont think it'll hurt the baby unless your having a high risk pregnancy! Spotting is normal! I'd also consult a Dr. just to be on the safe side!
2006-09-16 12:24:17 · answer #2 · answered by gacowgurl16 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are really concerned about the bleeding, talk to your doctor.
However, sex is not bad for a pregnancy. A little bleeding can happen even if you are not pregnant! Take the intimate "sesson" easy. Chose a position that doesn't allow for the deep penetration. See how it goes then go from there.
Soon, you might find yourself to the point where you can't get enough of your husband! ;) I doubt he'll complain.
2006-09-16 12:21:41 · answer #3 · answered by InnerBeauty28 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Theres no way his penis can halm the baby while you are intimate with you husband, Its normal, happend to me a cupple of times, if you are that worryed go and see your GP, but its nothing to worry about, this is my second pregancy and iv bled most the way threw this one and im 18 weeks! nuthings wrong with baby tho mind you! :) But yeah as i said nuthing to do with what you do in the bedroom its normal, but if you are that unsure go to your gp
good luck
Jaz + peanut!
2006-09-16 12:25:17 · answer #4 · answered by bunnyjaz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey you need to go to the doctor.Because it's a possiblity that your husband is to large and it could be something wrong. Let the doctor be the judge on the whether or not you have sex with your husband.
2006-09-16 13:16:48 · answer #5 · answered by tessie35 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Scared? Why? If your husband is not complaining then don't, but IF I suggest you satisfie the both of you and be gentle and yes it is normal to bleed, not alot though. I would not have sex the last week or so.
Happy to you and baby and dad.
2006-09-16 12:21:32 · answer #6 · answered by anythingbut_late4dinner 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I bled a little afterwards too, the doc told me it was normal though, said just not to be rough..... we don't anymore because it is uncomfortable for me. To much stuff to get around I guess.
2006-09-16 13:37:54 · answer #7 · answered by emmadropit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should ask your doctor. Be cautious! You might be putting undue stress on your relationship without it being necessary, however if it is a danger to the baby, that shouldn't stress your relationship at all. Again, talk to your doctor.
2006-09-16 12:15:42 · answer #8 · answered by Mrs. Lucky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you are pregnant spotting is normal aftter sex unles you continue to bleed. i would not have sex after you are 33 weeks your baby is turning and head getting in postion and your uturine wall is starting too thin out. i would ask your dr to be on the safe side.
2006-09-16 12:25:24 · answer #9 · answered by Lisa Marie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah, that's normal as long as it is not a LOT of blood. It comes from your cervix, which bleeds easier during pregnancy.
2006-09-16 12:13:20 · answer #10 · answered by mountain_laurel1183 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋