great attitude..but good luck with his
2006-09-16 05:11:26
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answered by Anonymous
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Good for you! More people need to understand that once you get past the pain of a divorce, you have a new life ahead. I, too, am divorced. My kids are grown, and I have all the time I ever wished for to investigate new things. I can do what I want to do and when I want to do it. The freedom is wonderful. I look at this as my new beginning. I hope you enjoy yourself and are a little more picky if you marry again.
2006-09-16 13:51:29
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answered by physandchemteach 7
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going through one right now. i wouldn't say that i am happy about it but with friends and family i am doing just fine. neither one of us is controlling nor have we cheated on one another but we just simply did not communicate with each other. i believe that if we had communicated it would have never gotten this far. we both love each other very very much. so anyway i tried to set up marriage counseling but she wouldn't go b/c her parents went to marriage counseling with their pastor and he told the whole church what was going on with their marriage so hence that is the reason that she won't go. i think that she will come back b4 our divorce is final with a different attitude but i don't know that i will take her back b/c i may end up finding someone else b4 then. good luck with your divorce and just remember you are a human being and you do deserve to be happy no matter who it is that you are with or if you want to be alone. i guess that is what has kept my head up this whole time.
2006-09-16 13:14:48
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answered by Anonymous
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I went through a divorce 2 years ago. If you have kids they will still have some sort of control over you. My husband had custody of my kids because he wouldn't move out of the house and I couldn't afford to take my kids with me. They were 17-21 so it wasn't really custody, but I paid child support. To this day when I call the house he is a rude arogant ba stard and I give thanks I left him.
2006-09-16 12:17:47
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answered by Anonymous
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I have been sad in my marriage for more than 20 years, but I never have a courage to get a divorce. But life is changed for me now, which is so complicate. When I almost wanted to end up our marriage with him, but he told me that he can't live without me and he wanted to end up his life if I left him. So, I never had a courage that just like you do and you sounded like you are a brave person who I always want to be. You give me some courage today and thanks for that and good lucky in your life!
2006-09-16 12:38:43
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answered by Marilyn 2
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You go girl! I did it ten years ago and it was the best thing I ever did for myself. It was hard at first, but it was fabulous in the end! I called that time THE EMANCIPATION OF ME and felt free as the wind!
Good luck and fly!
2006-09-16 12:25:52
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answered by Sweet Pea 3
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Yes and you are correct. It is important to maintain a positive attitude and look at the upside, as opposed to being a depressive mope. Best of luck to you!
2006-09-16 12:12:02
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answered by knowledgeisgood 3
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YOU GO GIRL - I was in the same situation 20 years ago and I have never been happier - I partied the day my divorce was final!
2006-09-16 12:15:32
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answered by Anonymous
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I don't understand how people are so happy to get divorced? If there was abuse, then ok. But otherwise, what happened to make you feel differently now?
2006-09-16 12:15:43
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answered by Mrs. Waiting 2
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I'm not now, but have before. Divorce sucks, no matter how bad you want it. 5 years later we have absolutely no contact even though we had kids together... Am I glad he's gone? You betcha'. But going through it sucked nonetheless.
2006-09-16 12:14:26
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answered by mamafence 2
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My Niece, she is free!! Two kids, he only wants to visit with the 2 yr old boy, not the 5 yr old girl... HE DOES NOT GET TO SEE EITHER OF THEM. HA! Until he straightens out! Ha!
2006-09-16 12:13:00
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answered by 4mom 4
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