I have been through a divorce recently and am really feeling unsure of myself, especially sexually. I would really appreciate some honesty about this.
My wife had been seeing other men for about a year and I was feeling pretty inadequate about my 'skills.' I don't know if it was out of wanting to be even more upset, but I went on some sites that were really for men and women to 'hook up,' and saw a lot of pics of guys that seemed reeeeealy well-endowed.
My penis is 6" long, which I know is average and is 6" in girth, which I always thought was on the fat side.
I now don't feel like anything special and am wondering if any woman will ever be 'impressed' by my equipment again.
What I want to know is: am I decently 'built?' do you think that guys are enhancing the pics they post of these boards?
am really feeling bad, and just need some honesty from folks.
2006-09-16 04:37:49 · 8 answers · asked by james p 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
Size sounds very normal to me, if anything the width sounds above average. I would imagine any pics you see will be generally bigger than average wouldn't you? There must be a strong corrolation between blokes having large tackle and wanting therefore to show it off. Or put it another way, would some guy with a small one want to enter the explicit porn world?
See what I mean? Best of luck with the rest of your woes, anyway.
2006-09-16 04:42:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I see absolutely nothing wrong with the size of your penis. From my personal experience, I'm more concerned with girth as opposed to length (I'm not saying you have a short one, because you don't). It could be 10" long but if it's as big around as a pencil, it's not going to do anyone any good. I know how it feels to have someone you love cheat on you. It makes you question everything about yourself, and I know at the time it's hard to see it, but you just have to remember that there is nothing wrong with you. I've looked through some of those "hook up" websites too, just to see what's out there. I would say the majority of those pictures are fake. I don't know that many women with six-pack abs and perky boobs, and I don't know any guys who are built like Long Dong Silver. If those people really looked like that, I doubt they would need to resort to the internet to find someone to hook up with. Trust me, you will find someone who thinks you're special both as a person, and as a sexual partner. Don't let what your ex-wife did to you spoil you for someone else. Good luck!
2016-03-27 04:00:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, rarely do people separate soley because of sex so it is doubtful that your wife left you because of your size. NEVER focus primarily on your penis size when it comes to women and relationships. You as a man, a person, have many things to offer and sex is only a small part of that. If a woman is interested in you emotionally, the sex part will just fall into place and all should be fine. If a woman wants you just because of penis size, you dont need her anyway! My point is, feel good about yourself as a person.......actual penis size is nothing you should be worrying about. MEN ! I just dont get you sometimes !! :) The problem was your wife, not you.
2006-09-16 05:15:55 · answer #3 · answered by Kit Kat 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're feeling insecure because your wife made you feel that way. don't torture yourself. She didn't leave because of your penis size, I'm sure.
She may have not been satisfied by other parts of your sex life or relationship, but not that.
and don't believe that there aren't men with 6" girth, because I have seen one (yes just one ) where I'm sure he was the girth of a soda can or beer can. I didn't have sex with him. It was a little scary.
A woman who loves you and you're trying to satisfy, will love you anyway. She will talk to you and tell you what she needs.
Hang in there, you're fine.
2006-09-17 06:08:55 · answer #4 · answered by wayouthere 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, that's very healthy! And also on the fat side too. That's supposed to be good. Most people who post pictures of themselves do so because they feel that they have something to show off.
If you're worried about technique, you have a vast resource lying right in front of your eyes. All you have to do is search. Here are a few interesting links to get you started:
http://www.gopilipinas.com/magazine/men-Sexuality/Sexuality1.htm
http://www.askmen.com/love/love_tip_60/67_love_tip.html
http://www.askmen.com/love/love_tip_60/64_love_tip.html
My guess is that the woman you were with had a cavernous vagina or that you two just had incompatible personalities. Good luck!
2006-09-16 05:15:22 · answer #5 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think you should feal bad about yourself, and your penis. To women they say size matters but me bein a black guy that aint true, most of em are scared of it so thats not the prob. Your wife prolly just left you cause you was not satisfying "her" properly. Might sound harsh, but she was just a hoe in disguise. Dont feal unimpressed with yourself. Do what she did get out there an get some new pussy. So dont be down **** females make us feal that way just to do it I guess. If I was you I would **** her best friend or something well thats my 2 cents peace out man.
2006-09-16 04:52:40 · answer #6 · answered by prince_jones14 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no way in the world your penis has a 6" girth ..... you'd look like a can of soda !
2006-09-16 10:36:20 · answer #7 · answered by billdeana2 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would be more than happy with that!! in fact tell me more about yourself
2006-09-16 04:47:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋