Am i going to far with worrying about this?
I was recently legaly seperated but now we got back together and its working out good , during that time I was seperated I had sex with a old freind just once and I have been worried she could be pregnant. She had her tubes tied 17 years ago and she is 41 and she thinks i am nuts, She has had 2 normal periods and even took a home pregnancy test just to shut me up which turned out negative but I am a worry wart.
What do you guys think am I just be stupid and need to stop worrying about her being pregnant?
Also please don't flame me I am just a nervious person who always fears the worst with everything
2006-09-16 04:24:14 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
think about it. what are the chances of a woman getting pregnant that it 41 (close to menopause) and has had her tubes tied. She has also had a negative test and 2 periods. If she was pregnant, none of that would be true. Just focus on your wife. You are only worried so much becuase you feel guilty.
2006-09-16 04:38:00 · answer #1 · answered by duckface 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's good to plan for what if....just don't obsess over it. Be grateful you know each other enough to be able to ask her to take the test .....The odds of a pregnancy after a tubal would make Vegas back away from that bet.
Be grateful she's still a friend and you have that time together ..... Perhaps your worrying about the current relationship your in failing .... Be your self. It a meteor from the sky falls and the marriage ends .... it was to be. Just work on the marriage and don't panic about dead rabbits!!
There are too many rabbits in the world any way.
2006-09-16 11:31:34 · answer #2 · answered by John 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, you need to move on. She had her tubes tied, i think you are just afraid that something will cause your relationship w/ your wife to get messed up. just sit back and don't worry about the other woman and try to fix any burning bridges you might have with your wife.
2006-09-16 11:28:42 · answer #3 · answered by RNbaby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't control the outcome so worrying about it isn't going to do anything. Move on and concentrate on making your marriage the best it can be.
2006-09-16 12:04:11 · answer #4 · answered by jimel71898 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You worry about too much. You are too sensitive! Move On!
2006-09-16 12:09:27 · answer #5 · answered by Marilyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah forget it.. if she's really pregnant, that's her prob.. you never shirked your responsibilities.. so let it be.. Move on dear!! and Be happy.. Best of luck.
2006-09-16 11:33:50 · answer #6 · answered by shabneez_17 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about it. Worrying isn't going to do anything. If she is, then she is and you can deal with it then.
2006-09-16 11:27:28 · answer #7 · answered by sarah071267 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to move on and stop obsessing
2006-09-16 11:25:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she had a period, she ain't pregnant.
if you are not familiar with that, you may want to look it up.
but i think thats repressed guilt, if its long term you may want to talk to a doctor
2006-09-16 11:34:54 · answer #9 · answered by papeche 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She can't be pregnant than dude, let it go.
2006-09-16 11:28:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋