Theres this girl in my class who in the starting of last year became a very good friend of mine. By the middle of that year she become a very close friend of mine and i told her my secrets.
But now, she completely ignores me. She doesnt even talk to me. She has made another friend and she keeps speaking to her in another language which i dont know. Ive tried making that girl my friend too but they still keep ignoring me. I really dont know the reason. We never had a fight. But one thing is that she has not spilled my secrets to anyone and she can be trusted.
Now i have stopped talking to her. I want to know whether i should still be friends with her or i keep away from her.
2006-09-16 04:04:49 · 12 answers · asked by helen 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
And also--she sits right beside me
2006-09-16 04:18:50 · update #1
I think you should keep away but be very very very nice to her i went though this before n nothing ahppen but maybe somthing is going on with ur friend! hopefully nothing happen but i think that u should be nice to her and write a note to her or calll her up or just talk face to face about what happen and hopefully nothing else will happen
2006-09-16 04:08:30 · answer #1 · answered by natalie h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should make some new friends. The way she's acting, she'll never speak to you a lot unless the girl is absent or sick then maybe. I know what that feels like. She will never talk to you. Just make new friends like I told you. You could also join some clubs which will make you forget about what happened. You will always care a little, but at the same time, be kinda glad or ok with it.
2006-09-16 12:04:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you mean . . . I'm sorta going through the same thing. my best friend in the WHOLE world got put in a different home room this year and she's not in any of my classes. We rarely see eachother in the hall. She started hanging out with all of these girls in her class and now she thinks she's sooooo cool!!!! she started hanging out with these cool guys on a regular basis. I think that all you can really do is call her and tell her that you're wondering why she is mad at you and that you're jealous of this other friend. My friend is understanding and I think that we will continue to be best friends . . . !!!!!
- Jealous
2006-09-16 11:16:22 · answer #3 · answered by alexisjo95 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Dont force her to be ur friend,,,and dont even ask the reason ....just stay away from her and let her live her life .....I have also gone through the same situation ,,,,so i can feel wht u are feeling ,,,seriously we can get some with force just leave things ..i hope she will get back to u ........If nt then just dont loose ur heart ..I am sure God has something good for u stored and he just wants tht the path should be clear so tht he can send tht sp freind in ur life ,,,,Hope for the best and i am sure u will get best friend in ur life soon .....
2006-09-16 16:52:24 · answer #4 · answered by koni1975 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she may have found someone she has more in common with .... Some folks don't know they can have more than just one friend (hint-hint).....Keep trying to be a friend from time to time ...perhaps tell her you miss the talks you used to have. Invite her to do a "Mall" day or similar thing...if she's still quiet and distant them quietly move on.
You have learned something .... never hang all you dirty laundry on the line for everyone to see......some secrets are best kept to your self .... A good rule of thumb to follow: If your momma would be pround of it on the front page of the news paper ...share it. if not ...perhaps it's best kept to your self.
2006-09-16 11:18:43 · answer #5 · answered by John 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe she found out some gossip about you (doesn't matter if it's true or not) and just doesn't want to be your friend anymore. but this is not friendship anyway. a teacher once told me: be careful in choosing a friend and even more careful in changing them... from my point of view, be really really careful, because if she didn't spill your secrets until now doesn't mean she never will!
2006-09-16 11:43:46 · answer #6 · answered by sea_star 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if u r interested then don't lose hope. If she is ignoring u know the reason first, then leave her. But not before that.
2006-09-16 11:18:46 · answer #7 · answered by SUNNY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good riddance to bad rubbish.
Don't fret over your friend just think she is not worth being your friend.
About your secrets, don't get scared as long as you think it is not going to harm you in the long run.
2006-09-16 11:09:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she stopped talking to u cuz u guys didnt really know that much about each other or it has been a long time since you seen each other if i were u i would only talk to her if i really had to
2006-09-16 11:16:31 · answer #9 · answered by ~^~ M.Lay ~^~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore her for a bit, if she wants to be friends with you still, she will try to talk to you...
2006-09-16 11:52:57 · answer #10 · answered by sean.mccarthy_16 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋