I know someone who got married to this girl becuase he got her preganaut and she ended up losing the baby after so he stayed with her and now he comes and goes as he pleases should he just leave her or stay with her she is 9 years his senior
2006-09-16 03:47:38 · 11 answers · asked by Cherry Blossom 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Pregnancy is never a good reason to get married unless there is some real love involved. I think the best thing here (based on the limited info you've given us) is that this relationship has little or no love in it - without love there is no basis for happiness in the marriage. The people will have to make up their own mind, but I for one would not stay in such a relationship - life is way too sort..
2006-09-16 04:07:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all he should have made sure birth control and safe sex were part of his sexual habits.
Sounds like he is happy with being able to come and go as he pleases. He probably tells the little hotties at the local club that he's married and they in turn in all likelihood find this to be a turn on ... you know the forbidden fruit syndrome.
He's probably getting more tail with this approach than he can handle and is loving every minute of it.
The only one getting hurt is his wife and as for all the little hotties, they're being lead around by their little panties.
2006-09-16 04:43:31 · answer #2 · answered by cdnponygirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This if the wrong reason to get married. If the baby would have survived he would have always blamed her for tricking him into marriage. His best bet, if he is unhappy he should leave. It doesn't get any better.
2006-09-16 03:57:28 · answer #3 · answered by Grandpa Shark 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he only married this girl because she was pregnant,the marriage was doomed from the beginning.It's only a matter of time before he leaves for good.He no longer feels obligated to her.
2006-09-16 04:11:28 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he needs to go if he doesn't love her in the first place then yea.Especially if he only stayed cause she got pregnant and now she lost it he needs to go before she gets pregnant again or he just hurts even more by leading her on.How do you know he is telling you the truth seems if he was that unhappy as soon as she miscarried he would be gone.Maybe he isn't as miserable as he lets on.Id be asking him about that one.
2006-09-16 03:53:43 · answer #5 · answered by blondie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It doesnt sound like either one of them is very happy and pregnancy really shouldnt be a reason to get married.
2006-09-16 03:50:04 · answer #6 · answered by JC 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He should stay if he loves her and is happy with her. He should leave if he's unhappy. The same goes for her. If she's unhappy, she can leave him as well.
2006-09-16 03:53:03 · answer #7 · answered by Mandy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if his heart isnt in it then he should leave and let her move on and he do the same dont play games with her and her heart
2006-09-16 03:58:13 · answer #8 · answered by teresa d 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
they both should do whats right
2006-09-16 03:49:40 · answer #9 · answered by wanda h 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
does he love her? Its not our decision Its his..
2006-09-16 03:50:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋