This has been going on for like 1/2 a year now...there's this girl who everytime I look up, she's always staring at me. She's rly outgoing w/ every1 else, but it seems like she's actually sorta shy around me,she just acts different. 2day we had to take a group pic with the class and everyone was dressed up and I was wearing this rly cute dress and I turned around and she was staring right at me w/ this intense look on her face, she didn't even say anything tho-it was REALLY weird and I just looked away and started talking to my friends cuz it was just awkward! On the first day of school I was at my lunch table w/ my friends and she was sitting with one of her other friends (she's rly popular actually) but I randomly looked up and she was like staring at me the same way she was this morning& I just looked down and pretended not to see her. I'm not imagining this or anything I swear &she's rly nice to ME but not my friends.WTF do u think is going on?
2006-09-16 03:33:46 · 12 answers · asked by newyorkrose9 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I'm nothing special either...I'm not even popular or anything, I'm just average, and I'm a lil quiet but sometimes I have little outbursts of outgoing-ness...but idk...I asked this question b4, but i'm still rly confused....you can't imagine how awkward it is....!
2006-09-16 03:35:53 · update #1
I don't understand why she "likes" me though! I just don't get it...idk...plus I think she has bf...I'm straight by the way...
2006-09-16 03:45:16 · update #2
Sounds like this girl walks on the other side of the fence. The signs that you mention all point to the possiblity that she may be a lesbian and she finds you really attractive. Really this is what it appears to be happening. What I would do is I would find a way and have a civil conversation with her and find out from her exactly why she is doing this. Then tell her in a really nice way that you are not this type of person, and to please stop staring at you all the time. Sometimes you really have to let people know exactly where you come from. I think if you do this, she will stop all the staring. Good luck, and remember "kindness" in these type situations always are the best way to handle it. You never know what situation life may present both of you and either one of you may need the other to help or assist you out of a difficult situation.
2006-09-16 03:59:56 · answer #1 · answered by Rooster 1972 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably does like you. Why don't you just get her alone and ask her what's up? Be nice about it, like "Is there something you want to talk about? I feel like you're always looking at me but you never say anything?" She'll stop.
2006-09-16 11:11:20 · answer #2 · answered by mamba 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...she could be gay. maybe she has a crush on you. if you are straight, or don't feel the same way, be easy on her. it's got to be hard. if she hasn't said anything to you, she probably figures it's hopeless. if you really want to know, and you're ready for what the answer could be, you could ask her, but please don't if you know you'll get upset if she says she's in love with you or something.
2006-09-16 10:39:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is a lesbian is what it sounds like. She finds you are hot and she wants you just let her know you aren't interested in her, like getting a boyfriend or something like that.
2006-09-16 10:42:40 · answer #4 · answered by Cassie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is a lesbian is what it sounds like. She finds you are hot and she wants you just let her know you aren't interested in her, like getting a boyfriend or something like that. or you are just afraid
2006-09-16 13:20:47 · answer #5 · answered by lexis919 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since she has not approached you, do nothing or say nothing, she may admire you. But you leave it at that, that is her problem. You just concentrate on school, and have fun!
2006-09-16 10:43:17 · answer #6 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to walk up to her, look straight at her and ask her boldly. The chances are it will stop after that.
2006-09-16 10:36:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you already know.
Sounds like she has a little crush on you. But you never know.
2006-09-16 10:37:06 · answer #8 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she may want to be your friend , but is too shy to ask.
2006-09-16 10:38:43 · answer #9 · answered by seilygirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she wants to munch your rug.
2006-09-16 10:50:37 · answer #10 · answered by vaivagabundo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋