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ok i am thinking about breaking up with my bf and i dont kno how to do it give me some lines or how do i tell him

2006-09-16 03:29:34 · 14 answers · asked by samantha 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting Adolescent

14 answers

I just need some time to my self right now...?

2006-09-16 03:33:52 · answer #1 · answered by Summers G 1 · 0 0

well, its not that difficult if hes ur boyfriend and one, who may be at a distance from where u live. if he lives near to your place, im sure there will be day to day problems. when u two are alone, try to be straight, do not show much affection as that will ignite his love to continue, tell him about the problem and make him understand but without quarrels. if u start an argument, hell want to dominate u. be cool and before doing all this, show him some clues for about two or three days that u no more want to be with him. this may piss him off and he may want to come up and ask you about the problem. dont fall back to ur sentiments if he howls.be straight. secondly, if its a line that you want, it goes : " look, its been a while weve been going along, but due to the bla bla bla consequences, it has not only been difficult for me but also impossible to continue further with you. So it is rather better not to have a relationship where its a one is not sattisfied. ill be better if you understand and accept my apologies for bieng mean or straight " .

2006-09-16 14:08:13 · answer #2 · answered by Subho 2 · 0 0

Ok, so, the first thing you need to do is make sure you 2 are ALONE when you to tell his, then it comes to the part of acctully sayineed tg that you want to break up. Here is what you need/should say:

"(Boyfriends name), We need to talk. Im only trying to do what is best for you and me, and i dont want to break your heart, your a sweet and wonderful guy but your not the right one for me im not the right one for you, were not meant to be toghter. So please understand this when I say, I think we should see other people."

....and then if if you want to or he alows you, give him a hug and maybe a kiss on the cheek and walk away....

The line I wrote is not cheese-bally. it works. I told my friend to use it on her now x-bf and it worked perfectly. their now seeing other people. So if you memorise this, (practice in front of the mirror), you will be FINE.

Good luck.

2006-09-16 10:59:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

Do it truthfully. Tell him you want to break up and why. But don't be mean about it. Say it in a kind way. And make sure you guys are alone.

2006-09-16 15:58:00 · answer #4 · answered by Ophelia 4 · 0 0

well the first thing, over the phone is too impersonal, and online is just plain rude. Go out and then explain your position. If he is who u think he is he will understand.

2006-09-16 13:26:15 · answer #5 · answered by GirlintheWorld 1 · 0 0

you dont need to give him a line just be honest. tell him the truth.

2006-09-16 17:25:48 · answer #6 · answered by amber 2 · 0 0

Be straight up and if there is no reason for breaking up with him but he is guilty he doesnt deserve an explanation.

2006-09-16 12:31:41 · answer #7 · answered by Jazzy Boo! 2 · 0 0

If you want to break, just stop seeing him. If you are feeling obliged to tell him, I doubt you actually want to break.

2006-09-16 10:52:12 · answer #8 · answered by curious 4 · 0 0

well i think you should tell him when you two are alone. i would not tell him in front of his friends. just let him down easy tell him that you would like to spend sometime with him and then tell him.

2006-09-16 10:34:19 · answer #9 · answered by vickie 3 · 0 0

well just be nice when u do it. tell him that u think it would be best if we could just be friends. let him know that u still care about him, just in a diff way.. hope i helped!!

2006-09-16 10:38:35 · answer #10 · answered by *JJtrue♥* 2 · 0 0

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