hi.. i am 16 year old girl.. i and my frnds(2 girls, 4 boys).. r planning to go to a shopping mall togeather... the guys r really desent... but as this is my new school.. my parents have no idea abt my frnds.. so they object it... i really wanna go.. what shall i do??
2006-09-16 03:27:25 · 20 answers · asked by lavender 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I will first tell you what happened to a friend of mine.She told me she wanted to go on a trip with a guy she just met.I told her not to go without telling her parents but she did anyway.For six days nobody heard from her and we were all worried.On the seventh day the police discovered an accident scene with two bodies.Yep, it was my friend and her guy.This wont happen to you, but its always good for our loved ones to know where we are most of the time as life is full of risks.Anything can happen to anyone at anytime.Try and talk to your parents maybe they will have a rethink.But if they don't its really not the end of the world.There will be other days.Cheers
2006-09-16 03:36:28 · answer #1 · answered by Alot-in-crisis 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop! Don't rouin the relationship between u and ur parents. Its hard to gain trust from them. I been there and done that. Don't sneak out. If any thing sit them down and have a little talk with them, be open about how u feel about the sitituation. I wouldn't tell them about the boys, i make like its all gurls, u know how they r about guys. SEXXXXXXXXXXXXX! Be cool and tell them its all gurls maybe invite the 2 gurls over to introduce them to ur parents.
2006-09-16 03:32:57 · answer #2 · answered by cilstubbs2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SELFISH ,SHAME ON YOU , after all the pain your mom dealt with having you , that's just a typical thing with teens, we all did it ,or thought of it ,or knew kids that like in your case tried to convenience other weak minded little girls like you its cool and will be o.k. have you ever had a pet ,or favorite stuffed animal ? if you come home ,or checked on either and they were gone how would you feel ??? well then imagine how your parents would feel if they discovered you missing or like the house caught fire and one or both were injured or killed trying to help there little girl escape my advise is don't do it just chill you only have two more years till they are not responsible for you then you can stumble and fall all you want
2006-09-16 04:01:56 · answer #3 · answered by simplemanmd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get your parents permission or don't go.
If you're 16 you might want to remind your parents that you are at the age where you need a social life, especially since you are now in a new school. Ask them if they would feel more at ease if your friends picked you up at your house and came in to meet them first. That might help.
2006-09-16 03:35:17 · answer #4 · answered by Avid 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your question is "Is sneaking out bad?" If you are sneaking out without your parents permission you are disobeying your parents. If you disobey them, why would they trust you later on? There are specific rules that will hold a family unit together as a very tight and powerful unit. To disobey these rules will hurt you more that it will hurt your family. What are these rules? They are the Ten Commandments. God also said, "Children, obey your parents". Do it!
2006-09-16 03:40:33 · answer #5 · answered by Wedge 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sneak out you only live once. If you are just going to the mall i think it should be alright. Just don't do anything stupid. If you sneak out and ge tin trouble or do soemthing worse then your parents may not aloow you any freedom until your eighteen. Be smart but by all means have fun. Your young enjoy it.
2006-09-16 03:32:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should not go behind you parents back but let them meet your friends and hope they can see that they are o k people after all you are 16 and need to make your mistakes just take care at all times
2006-09-16 03:40:04 · answer #7 · answered by Janey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
D'not have you guts to convince your parents about your friends, if you are so confident about them? I think your parents are doing the right thing. It is better to wait and watch before taking any decision. So do not sneak.
2006-09-16 03:36:19 · answer #8 · answered by ars32 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your mom you FINALLY made new friends and you would like to go out with them. If you acted like you hadn't made new friends since then than she'll probably feel sorry for you and let you go!
2006-09-16 03:49:57 · answer #9 · answered by Someone 2 good 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i snuck out 2 years ago in the summer with friends + dad caught us outside. u dont wanna know what happed but it hurt
2006-09-16 03:42:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋