Until my fertility was in threat, I never wanted children. Most guys that I have been with were eager to start a family of their own. When I was told I had a fertility problem I was only 20, it upset the hell out of me and made me reconsider my chocie quick smart, I now have a beautiful boy, but if my partner hadn't have wanted a child then, it wouldn't have bothered me. I wouldn't have made me love him any less just because his choice was different than the one I had made.
2006-09-16 03:11:35
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answered by kittycat_cc14 3
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It's just natural to want a baby. Men who refuse are usually just afraid of the unknown.
A friend of mine had to wait ten years for her husband to come around (in order to save his marriage) and when his son was born, the first thing he said when he got to hold the baby was "Why didn't we do this years ago?"
2006-09-16 09:20:45
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answered by kitkat94670 4
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Many women having sex do not have this problem of the man refusing to make a baby. It seems they must want to or else they'd help protect or make sure she is not sick when she is having sex.
If mine had refused, I would have said thank you for thinking of their future and my physical and emotional health. God bless you.
2006-09-16 09:16:59
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answered by *babydoll* 6
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They should accept the fact that having a baby is impossible. only if they curse the man in some way. or get a divorce and have sex with a street guy and get pregnent.
2006-09-16 09:16:40
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answered by Spinywolf 4
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Because having a baby completes MOST women and their lives.If you are with a man who doesnt want a baby,then its your decision to make whether you will stay with him or not.Simple as that!
2006-09-16 09:25:00
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answered by firefly 4
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Some thing I've always wanted to do, be a mother. We would definitely talk about it before it got too serious.
2006-09-16 09:20:10
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answered by X's Mommy 5
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because women and men, for that matter, are naturally programmed
to reproduce and have children. i
2006-09-16 09:17:44
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answered by lop 1
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The divorce rate would be even higher.
2006-09-16 09:16:27
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answered by Diesel Weasel 7
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who did say that ****?
2006-09-16 09:16:25
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answered by Anonymous
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