Have you ever hurt someone that you love very much and no mattrer what you do you just can't make things right?
2006-09-16 02:03:23 · 14 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
and for live2ride no i did not cheat on this person .....hurting someone does not always involve sex, words can hurt sometimes also.
2006-09-16 07:04:45 · update #1
Yes, I have hurt many people I love. I have learned I can not change the past. I can do the next right thing for the future. Most of the people I have hurt have forgiven me for the things Ive done. At the same time we are all human. Although they have forgiven me they have not forgot the pain ive caused. There for things will never be the same between us. Are relationship will never be the same, but with time, Patience, trusting in them and giving my love things will be good again. Keep doing the next right thing.
2006-09-16 02:14:51 · answer #1 · answered by lil bit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is a guy that you were possibly looking to get involved or were with, then you should give it some time and maybe write him a letter explaining the why's and what's. If you hurt a best friend and he/she is just being unreasonable about hearing you out, then maybe space is neccessary? However, in answer to your prior question, yes I have hurt someone before without meaning to. He liked me I did not realize it until I endd up with someone else. The person I hurt was a very good friend for 8 or more years, He feels I cheated on him, but i never new he was trying to date me. I just keep hoping that with some time, and a few cards he will forgive me. I have found that no matter what you do things work themselves in it's own way no matter what we do. I also learned that forgiveness is not easy and takes time. I f you hurt this person by cheating or lying or both,then your going to have to do alot of apologising and explaing why, then maybe you can earn some trust back. I left cards and little trinkits on the inside of his door, I tried everything, after all he had been like a brother to me and my three kids for 7 years and I don't want to just throw it away. well I hope my rambling helped
2006-09-16 02:31:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, and sometimes you can never make things right and after you do it you know that you messed up big time but can't turn back the hands of time, and this sucks!!! But, the only thing you can do is learn from what you've done and not repeat the same mistake twice.
2006-09-16 02:06:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The old saying "Never burn your bridges" holds it's truth. We should guard our tongues at all times. I'm to blame as well. I only learned the true meaning of this saying from my own experiences. Best of luck to you. Don't beat yourself up though if they don't want to find it in their heart to forgive. The best thing to do is admit your fault and ask for forgiveness. If they choose to ignore that than don't dwell. You've cleared yourself by admitting you were wrong.
2006-09-16 02:29:21 · answer #4 · answered by sweet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I HAD A CRUSH ON A BOY NAMED SOHIL.WE PLAYED AND TALKED LIKE ALL FRIENDS.BUT I LOVED HIM DEEP INSIDE MY HEART.ONE DAY IN SCHOOL I BROUGHT MY SLAM BOOK .A BIG MISTAKE OF MINE.IN IT WAS THE NAME OF SOHIL IN THE MY CRUSH AND DREAM DATES COLUMNS.SOME OF MY CLASS MATES FOUND OUT.THEY TOLD IT TO MY CLASS TEACHER.I WAS BUSTED.AND NOW YOU CAN GUESS WHAT HAPPEND.SOHIL ALSO CAME TO KNOW AND HE BECAME ANGRY I MEAN VERY ANGRY OF ME.HE STOPPED TALKING TO ME.I MEAN WHAT COULD I DO.I SAID TO HIM I WAS VERY SORRY BUT NO HE JUST COULD NOT FORGIVE ME.HE WAS TO HURT TO FORGIVE ME.I WILL NEVER FORGET THE LOOK ON HIM.OKEY!!!! THATS ENUF.BYE.
2006-09-16 03:13:45 · answer #5 · answered by Sweet pie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.. I hurt some one who really I love, but I did that because he hurt me so it was my reaction... but I dealt with that later and forgot the whole thing.
So you have to forgive and forget.
2006-09-16 02:09:51 · answer #6 · answered by Sousy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you did not mean it and are truly sorry, say sorry to them and never do it again, if they finish with you learn from it, and don,t do it again otherwise you will be the one who ends up hurt, remember to forgive yourself and when God forgives he forgets, we have all hurt people in our ignorance. no one is perfect, we just have to learn from it. take care Denise.
2006-09-16 02:14:50 · answer #7 · answered by guysmithdenise 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes!!! i hurt my daddy and don't know how to make it right. what i have done is ask god for forgiveness and leave it as that. if god can forgive then who is my father that he can't so i don't worry about it any more i let go and let god.
2006-09-16 02:18:30 · answer #8 · answered by REDDVELVET 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure I have. You have to forgive youself first and formost. Then all you can do is sincerely appologize to the one you hurt. then its up to them.
2006-09-16 02:06:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Somethings you just can't make right. Good luck!
2006-09-16 02:06:14 · answer #10 · answered by bookfreak2day 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋