2006-09-16 01:02:50 · 31 answers · asked by raindrops 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
eventhough they both do things weird at my back... even my relatives reacts to it.
2006-09-16 01:24:58 · update #1
you care and love him.
2006-09-16 01:06:16 · answer #1 · answered by superyoyogirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because it's a reminder of her association with her husband. Do you have any unresolved issues having to do with their relationship? Perhaps you don't realize it, but sit down and think it through, it sounds like you do. When you figure it out, sit down with your husband and talk it out with him calmly, explaining why you need this closure, so that you can move on and let go of the anger. Anger is never a healthy emotion to hang onto, consciously or not.
2006-09-16 08:08:45 · answer #2 · answered by Laurie K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just knowing that they had a relationship, and wondering if they have those little secret sayings with one another, and the thought of them having relations with one another can be hurtful.
Sometimes it is normal, but if he is seeing her or talking to her behind your back, you need to address this, I would tell him that you plan on talking to her, then go to her and explain that you are getting your feelings hurt, and you want her to back off a bit.
Regardless of what people say, Jealousy is real, and it doesn't make it hurt less, and it doesn't mean that anything is wrong with you. You Love the guy, and you want to protect what is yours.
2006-09-16 09:17:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy
2006-09-16 08:05:19 · answer #4 · answered by cherox 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because she was linked to your husband. It seems you still have unresolved issues with her. You're also just protecting your territory (if you're still married). Maybe you're nervous that they might cheat on you. Whateve you're feeling I'd suggest that you talk to your husband especially to the lady and sort it out before it eats you up inside and you end up doing something you might regret.
2006-09-16 08:16:21 · answer #5 · answered by sweetdivine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because it's the fact that she had him, maybe tasted your muffin. And it leaves a bad taste in your mouth. Maybe she's a little bit prettier in your mind, and you look at her as competition? I know I have seen some of my hubby's ex's and thought that way. And then I got over it. Just shake it off when you feel like that.
2006-09-16 08:17:49 · answer #6 · answered by t.larae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yr jelous and possesive, u so need to understand that yr husband chose u and not her and hes with u and not her and u have nothing to be jelous or afraid or unsecure of, so make yr peace in yr mind abt her and smile whn u see her next .
2006-09-16 08:32:53 · answer #7 · answered by haboba13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a trust issue. You are not fully trusting the love of your husband for you and are jealous that he once shared with her.
Good Luck and God Bless!!
2006-09-16 08:17:25 · answer #8 · answered by msqtech 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you have that little green monster coming out of you (jealousy) unless he was connected to this girl while you were dating or married, you have nothing to be mad about. He did pick you right?
2006-09-16 08:07:43 · answer #9 · answered by Joy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might be a little insecure about it. That is usually how jealousy forms. Jealousy can be controlled when you realize that she doesn't impose a threat to your relationship with your husband. Remember that he asked you to marry him and not her.
2006-09-16 08:12:13 · answer #10 · answered by sweet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U need to look at the situations in which you see her. She should not be in contact with your husband, if she is then u need to speak to your husband and sort it out. Incase she is not in contact with him anymore then you have every reason to gloat when you see her be angry because u have the man!!
2006-09-16 08:10:06 · answer #11 · answered by sensa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋