The fact of the matter is she told her best friend and just the other day her best friend told me that my wife had told her that we hadnt had sex for a long long time. Now i might be wrong but i felt like she was coming on to me and she does look good ive checked her out. Am i just horny from no sex and thats the reason i felt she was coming on to me. If she really puts it on me should i take it. I dont wont to hurt my wife but i need sex bad!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-16 00:58:31 · 10 answers · asked by needsum 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Absolutely not. The best friend is off limits. That's a trap waiting to happen. How do you know that your wife didn't put her up to it? Why don't you try to seduce your wife instead?
2006-09-16 01:04:45 · answer #1 · answered by hot.sassy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Welcome to the party pal, look 25 years of the same penis, the same vagina, and I bet you have a 8 minute routine when you do have sex. talk to your wife, don't post questions here. try some romance.there is only so much you can do. I mean We trade cars in after 5 years, and you use them everyday too. If after you discuss it with her she is aware and uncaring.then let her know what time it is.tell her you love her but a man gotsa get his.....maybe she will be glad you leaving her alone. Just don't be an idiot and because you get some strange you have to leave the wife.......do what you got to do and come home.
2006-09-16 08:04:42 · answer #2 · answered by answering 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about the friend. You need to do some serioud thinking. If you wife mentioned this to a friend then obviously it is bothering her to. You need to talk to your wife about this and not her friends or even us. If you go for the friend you are definitely going to hurt your wife and probably yourself as well.
If you have to get professional help. You can't throw 25 years down the drain without pulling out all stops to put the spark back into your sex life.
2006-09-16 08:30:45 · answer #3 · answered by robsnor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your wife is probably going through the change of life. Menopause. Its totally natural, and women go through it. If you turn your affections to her Best friend, it will be the bigest mistake of your life and will probably ruin your marriage. Did you ever stop to think maybe your wife put her friend up to this to see if you would take the bait? You can do without the sex if you really Love your wife. I hope things go better for you and your wife. Don't mess around with her Best Friend you will be sorry!
2006-09-16 08:06:23 · answer #4 · answered by KIM A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a discussion you need to have with your wife..not with her friend and not with strangers on the Internet. You need to express your concerns with your relationship, and ask her what you can do to help her want to be more intimate with you.
If there are issues, medical or marital, not being interested in sex may be how she's dealing with them.
2006-09-16 08:02:29 · answer #5 · answered by Kaia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Buddy, sounds like you are in the same boat I was in just before she filed for DIVORCE and took me for everything I had. I was married for 25 years also. Bet you shes' getting it somewhere else
2006-09-16 08:02:47 · answer #6 · answered by texasguy11656 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When's the last time you brought your wife flowers? Surprized her with dinner out? Rubbed her feet? Drawn her a bubble bath? I think you had better look inward.
2006-09-16 08:14:23 · answer #7 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are married to the same woman for 25years is OK, but is the woman married to the same man for 25 years is the qeustion.?
2006-09-16 08:06:55 · answer #8 · answered by Mary G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try some more sexy stuff like tieing her up (kinky stuff) or buy some sex toys or kinky uniforms or underwear for both him and her. Agent Provoceteur is good for that stuff
2006-09-16 08:01:21 · answer #9 · answered by AAAPokerJoker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it and enjoy
2006-09-16 08:01:10 · answer #10 · answered by hector 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋