2006-09-16 00:51:44 · 11 answers · asked by tao j 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
I find when u r unhappy it's cos u think it's that u don't have a girlfriend but it ain't that. i was unhappy cos i loved someone too much he left and i thought i am gonna get another boyfriend. what did i do? went out with an idiot who decided to cheat with my best friend so if you feel unhappy try experimenting like finding a hobby that will take ure mind off life for a while. it helps and u will probably find a girlfriend some day just be patient.
Hope this helps and i suffer from anxiety as well and paranoia
2006-09-16 00:56:34 · answer #1 · answered by Raven 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One thing I have learned is people who look for love usually end up with nothing. Let it happen when it happens. When the time is right for you she will be there. I know it may be frustrating but I'd would rather wait for the right one than find someone and it doesn't last and you are right back where you started from. I personally haven't been in a relationship of any kind for seven years. Everyone has a different situation. So please be patient.
2006-09-16 08:01:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you need to know that you are NOT definded by being with or without another person.. I can understand your frustration. But your happyness or unhappyness comes from you and you alone not that you are not with someone.
Maybe you should try getting out of the house more and find an activeity to do that will help you meet other people. Do you work.? That might be a start. Or something with school or church.
2006-09-16 07:57:45 · answer #3 · answered by LadyCatherine 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes we experience anxiety, a feeling of emptiness and often of not being complete and frustrated when we are alone and don't have a significant other. As the social beings humans are, it is important to share, communicate, love and feel loved by other individuals. Being in love is a magnificent feeling, but our lives and well being do not depend on it. You need to be happy with yourself in order to make someone happy. Maybe you are afraid of being alone and that causes you to feel lost. Remember, we are the only individuals responsible for our own happiness, and this one resides in our cores, not on other people hands. Please seek professional help, a therapist can help you a great deal.
2006-09-16 07:55:41 · answer #4 · answered by Apollo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that, on the inside, you may be telling yourself that you are somehow not a good person or you feel inferiour just because you don't have a girl friend. You feel bad not because you don't have a girl friend, but because of what you are saying to yourself about it. Don't let your emotions be influenced by outside circumstances. Things can never be the way we want them to be, so just be happy to be who you are and learn to accept and love yourself. And who knows, it may be easier to attract a girl to you that way too, don't you think?
2006-09-16 07:58:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Come on man open up. You are looking out for a girl friend. Why not say it out loud??? Friendly tip ask for a girl to teach you English.
2006-09-16 08:05:39 · answer #6 · answered by the Tramp 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to find happiness within yourself... forget about a girlfriend for now... next week you'll be here asking us why you're so unhappy with her and should you break up...
get a life
2006-09-16 08:02:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be patient. We usually don't find the person we want to be with untill we stop looking! If you relax about it, you'll feel better and she'll come along before you know it!
2006-09-16 07:56:03 · answer #8 · answered by Candy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The more you search, the more it will go away from you.
Take my advice and stop searching...i'm sure your a very nice guy and you will definetly find the perfect woman whom you can neva take ur eyes off.
wish you best of luck!
2006-09-17 12:48:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wel dont worry u will get girl friend
2006-09-18 01:37:34 · answer #10 · answered by rajan naidu 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋