You love your girlfriend and you do not want to lose her. Marriage is a huge step and lot goes into marriage. Why does your girlfriend want to get marry? The reason I am asking because does she want to get marry because she loves you and she wants to take relationship to next level or does she just wants to get marry. It is big difference if she want's to take her relationship to next level base on her feelings. It wrong if she just wants glitz and glamor of showing off her shining new rock. You told you girlfriend how you felt and she still want to push marriage. I know you do not want to lose her but you do not want give in to her request. You are not ready and you are man enough to tell this. She should respect that you are not ready and discuss how she feels and when you will be ready. Discuss and plan is what you should do.
2006-09-16 01:11:36
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answered by Disha 4
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Depending how long you have been together. Maybe you still need to get to know each other better. If you both are in love with each other, maybe take it to the next level anyways. Long engagements are not a bad thing. Marriage should not be taken lightly anyways, being a full commitment to each other. You both need to talk about this though, before insecurities start to come to play, which will be damaging to your relationship. Why can you not marry her anyways?
2006-09-16 02:40:45
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answered by Tammy 2
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i think you are not able to marry her due to some problems and also you cannot live without her then i think u should marry because YOUR LIFE IS MUCH IMPORTANT THAT OTHER THINGS AND THE MAIN REASON IS U LOVE HER.
SO GO FOR IT
2006-09-16 01:34:24
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answered by sushma 1
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why couldn't you marry her?
if you love someone, you should make promises and commitment to the other part.
irresponsible love could be crazy but also hurts.
2006-09-16 00:58:32
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answered by Chanel 3
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well,just stop fooling around with her n get out of her way if you cant marry for for whatever reasons!!
2006-09-16 02:13:49
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answered by country_girl 5
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Kill ur self..I rlly dunno why r u saying so, but if u dont wanna marry her, so, u dont love her ..u only enjoy her..try being without her for a while & see ur reaction & according 2 it decide..!!!!!
2006-09-16 01:02:33
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answered by sweetchocolate 2
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funny, yaar why cant you marry her. if she is ready where is the problem
2006-09-16 00:56:59
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answered by honestanswers 2
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you've got a problem
2006-09-16 00:58:28
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answered by Angela 7
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