One thing I would do is....suffer less about my meddling mother in law. Ignoring her would have been better than fighting about her.
I would also, have taken my single life more seriously.... Less dating, less beautifying. More reading and caring for my innerself.
2006-09-16 00:18:10 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Sociology
YES!! I most definately would do things differently and better. I would've stayed in the service and retire after 20 yrs. And although I love my wife more then anything, I would not have taken up with her (long story).
There are so many things...don't make me cry.
2006-09-16 00:38:38 · answer #1 · answered by Sick Puppy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I believe that everything that has happened in the past has made me the person I am today. For the most part I like my life now and would make very few changes if any. That said, if I had the opportunity to live my life again while retaining my memories of my life now I would change somethings. There are many boys and men I would have stayed clear of. I dated some real losers in my time. I would have waited for my husband or invested more time in some of the "geeks" that liked me. I would have done better in school and started college earlier. I would have stayed in touch with some of my friends from my younger days. I would have loved my body when I was a size 7 and not thought I was fat (and worked harder to keep me there).
If I had no memory of my current life I would probably make all the same choices and end up in the same place.
2006-09-16 04:47:31 · answer #2 · answered by Stacy 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would do nothing different (after looking back). I haven't always made the best decisions and we are not on "easy street" but I have a family who thinks I'm the best anyway.
We all make choices. Choices set a course in our lives, sometimes pleasant. Sometimes not. When we are in a bad place, we make a decision that "alters" the course we are on. Eventually, we make a choice that takes us to calm waters and beautiful shores. I hope you get there soon, my friend!
2006-09-16 06:07:01 · answer #3 · answered by Delta Charlie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would have tried to learn to love at an earlier age, i was such a mean kid because I was so emotionally screwed up, Love seems to be the answer to alot in life and brings such a rich flavor, afterall, all we leave with is our personal development and our relationships.
2006-09-16 00:28:28 · answer #4 · answered by TriDad 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I like me just the way I am. No regrets. And I definitely would not want to go through the painful process of making all those choices again. Unless of course I could know what I know now. ;-)
2006-09-16 00:36:17 · answer #5 · answered by Ever Learn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be more focused on me rather than worry about what others thought. But we are where we are, and today is the start of the rest of my life, so let's settle for that.
Is that OK with everyone ?
2006-09-16 01:02:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I belive that if my spirit in a previous life existed and also has individual characteristics(me), it then preceeds the continuation of it's life or in other words itself and is existing as a progressive and infinite occurence period.
2006-09-16 00:32:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
i wouldn't change a thing because every decision i've made, every path i've taken, every experience i've had has led me where i am today. i would relive every minute, even the worst of the worst, if that's what it took to get where i am now.
2006-09-16 00:21:20 · answer #8 · answered by jbslass 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'd have never taken a drink of alcohol.
2006-09-16 00:27:42 · answer #9 · answered by synchronicity915 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
have taken my single life more seriously
2006-09-16 00:26:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋