I dont undertsend mens when try to play macho men and say i never cry I AM A MEN!!! ( phhhbbbbtttt )( lol), ,this is funny,u know we are all human with soul and we all feel, but does mens who think they are so much and they are so ful of them selfs,and they dont cry coz they are MENS! They hate womans who cry, but they cry and blid more inside them, then we , them soul is screaming of pain, heart is bliding, but for all who cry, the soul will become soon pure and ful of love and it will undertsend all and everything ............
Wish to all people all best and lot love and all good,take care be open and good..
:)
2006-09-15 23:17:59 · 14 answers · asked by . 3 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
What do u think about all macho men? I am a man!!!
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2006-09-15 23:26:20 · update #1
Baby men do cry on the inside.When a man says he never cry he does in other ways .And now a days it is good for a man to cry it relieves stress
2006-09-17 10:22:32 · answer #1 · answered by Millo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Society dictates to us what is acceptable and macho etc. If wearing tight leather like the "Village People" and being homosexual was embraced by society as being MACHO then perhaps men would start to embrace that.
I'm male and I didn't cry for 9-10 years because of being physically, sexually and emotionally abused by members of my family and my way to show them they had no power of me was to control my emotions in a way that I wouldn't care or cry due to their abuse.
Beat the sh it out of an average ten year old and they're gonna cry, right? Not me, my brother who was 4 years older and on steroids beat me daily, ther's still holes in the walls and cracks in the house where we lived from where he would smash my head in to wall etc.
Now at 25, I can cry. I cry and feel great afterwards and my life is a distant cry from those days of abuse.
I have become such an emotionally stable person now, as I used to have sever anger management problems, that people wonder why things don't effect me severly as they effect others.
I've learnt to not care what other people think of me.
It's very liberating.
I'm not feminine. I'm not a cry baby. I'm not a weeping over emotional person. I am everything that exists.
Life can be great.
2006-09-16 06:37:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I'm 6 foot, 250lbs.
I'm a veteran.
I say that it takes a man to cry.
And by the way there is nothing that disturbs me more than seeing a woman crying.
I want to comfort her and make all her problems go away, but I can't.
2006-09-16 17:11:48 · answer #3 · answered by drg5609 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Crying is a human capability, and men who resist out of context are "hu" less "man" !
2006-09-16 08:54:02 · answer #4 · answered by Spiritualseeker 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It has nothing to do with how others will see us.It's about maintaining control and a level head.
2006-09-16 06:42:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am an "mens" and this question made me cry! A LOT! I'm still bawling over it!
2006-09-16 06:26:07 · answer #6 · answered by woodwinman 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
they cry dear, bt not infront of u of course, he wont admit it coz they think that its weakness, i think its the best way to releive pressure. thank god for tears
2006-09-16 11:04:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
men, like women, do cry!! they just don't make a big fuss over it like some women do..i mean they do it in private...just leave them to it!
2006-09-17 10:09:44 · answer #8 · answered by before&after 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think you need a friend to talk..
cause you have a lot something to say about mens..
Am i right..?
it's okay..
just find someone who will listen to you and share to him or her
about what you feel right now..
GBU
2006-09-16 06:26:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
IF a men cries it dosn't mean their weak. it only makes them stronger....
2006-09-16 06:25:20 · answer #10 · answered by LOVED:) 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋