i mean well,ok if it gives uthe pleasure but still its kinda bad,all that semen and blood coming out and the hurting,well its nast?
2006-09-15 22:31:05 · 28 answers · asked by Ashley. 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
everyone does it because they think its cool for them to have sex so that they can be popular. if someone has told you to have sex just to beomce popular, don't listen to them. you don't have to do anything you don't want to do. they think that it gives them a pleasure because they just want to act strong enough to prove that they can be better as anyone else just to have sex. it does have blood for the girls and semen for the boys, but for the girls, blood will be comming when you only have your FIRST sex. when you do it again, there won't be blood because the first time, your tissue is going to be ripped apart inside your vagina when a boys you know what goes in your vagina. its really gross. i did it before, but i don't think i want to do it again. besides i am only 14 years old.
2006-09-15 23:27:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
How old are you? Sex is not painful unless if your doing it wrong. If you find it painful then you could have a medical condition and need to see an OB/GYN.
I don't know what you are talking about when you say "blood coming out". Oh wait did you just have sex for the first time? If so the blood would be from you loosing your virginity. Some women bleed when they have sex for the first time. Don't worry that wont happen every time. The first time a girl haves sex can be a bit painful but it's not always painful. Don't worry!
2006-09-16 05:33:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ashley, blood only comes out of the woman the first time (or possible first couple times) she tries it. The semen coming out of the man is accompanied by Intense Pleasure. Women also feel Intense Pleasure (multiple times in fact) if the man knows what he is doing. You may find semen and your own vaginal lubrication "nasty" at first but you will learn to live with it, trust me! :) Now stop worrying about stuff like this and go watch the Fairly OddParents.
2006-09-16 06:43:57 · answer #3 · answered by Chucky D 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
every human beenig need a relation . real realation is like this oonly u ask question one? if dont have any sex feeling no body ther in earth and if u also . that feeling makes to prove ur self ok and its not hurting when u hate some thing it is close to urs .hurts .... u said what hurts if u want enjoy anthing u have to do hard work ok like thins only . ur age ? plz? where ru from? ok if age entered u have some feeling ok take care byee
2006-09-16 09:03:13 · answer #4 · answered by b.naresh n 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you are not in the mood then it will hurt. And try to relax and let your hubby do the move. YOU will enjoy it. And usually only for the first time blood comes out since the hymen get torn. BUT then this is not for girls who do lot of exercise or stretching as it will be torn already. GOOD LUCK.
2006-09-16 07:34:47 · answer #5 · answered by switch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off Sex when in love and of legal age does not feel nasty
When you start having sex at too young of age you are opening yourself to STD's including HIV and HPV
Intimacy is a bonding experience and sex should not be something done just to be done
Wait till you are older wait till you find a partner you can see yourself having children with
be careful and stay safe and don't feel pressure to have sex
2006-09-16 11:35:44 · answer #6 · answered by Cheryl J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you really had some bad experience about sex. It is so natural to have it like food and water. You need some help.
2006-09-16 14:12:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The hurting will go away after a few times of having sex. and you will only bleed if it's your first time.
2006-09-16 08:17:01 · answer #8 · answered by 1TruHawaiian 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i doubt if u've ever had sex. even i am a virgin n such questions keep cropping up in my mind. but since d whole world is mad about it, m sure there must b something gud about it. check ur facts, either someone is misleading u or probably u've had a one time bad experience.
2006-09-17 04:21:38 · answer #9 · answered by Sromit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe hurt in the first few attempts of sex, but i think subsequently it should be slowly becoming pleasurable, just use a KY gel if you need to reduce friction.
2006-09-16 06:29:01 · answer #10 · answered by Ryan goh 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋