I feel i always want his touch,being cuddly,kissing,hugs.I luv him too much n we are planning to marry in couple of yrs but my bf is either glued to TV or slogging or is tired? Wat to do? He loves me too much,i feel we are in some divine relationship but i'm a human being,i just luv being sexy with him.How to make him do it without me being too jumpy around him? plz help frienz....
2006-09-15 22:04:15 · 19 answers · asked by simran v 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I am with you all the way on this one, tell him to get off his *** and please you or I am coming over to take his place...
2006-09-15 22:25:45 · answer #1 · answered by Dr. Phill klueyain Jr. 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
TALK TO HIM!!!!!! If you can't have good communication with him now, then the marriage is doomed. If you haven't really set down and had a serious one on one conversation with him, then you can't really complain. Guys aren't mind readers, no matter how much we think they should be. So give him a break, and let him know how you feel. One thing that needs to stop, is the television watching. IF he's too tired for sex, then he needs to go to bed so that maybe the next night, he'll have more energy to do you. OR you can try just getting naked and standing in front of the TV. A little awkward at first, yes, but definitely something that will get his attention. Or give him a BJob, only don't finish. Tell him he has to do you to get some satisfaction. There's no point in being shy with the guy you want to marry. May as well lose that shyness now instead of later. You're a woman, not a girl, and go for it!!!!!
2006-09-16 05:14:27 · answer #2 · answered by t.larae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to hear that, are you sure he loves you so much, cos I think he lost interest in you, he cant be tired and busy all the time if he really cares about you, be careful and think twice before doing any step to get more involved with this relationship
2006-09-16 05:21:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you do the same thing that i do be patient and when he isn't tired you will reap the end reward. my fiance works 10 to 14 hour days so the physical part of the relationship doesn't always happen but when it does its the fourth of July every time and everything just keeps getting better
2006-09-16 05:11:56 · answer #4 · answered by tommysbabydoll@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if at your age your Bf and you do not have the sex drive then something is wrong. either he is attarcted to someone else and screwing her or he is fed up with you. at this age you should be having sex everyday like rabbits and may be more than once a night at times. so tease him , give hima massage and dress well. be more creative. the novelty of sex will come back again
2006-09-17 12:46:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be patient I hope everythig will get fine in few days. Go for small tour on some romantic places,go for dinner, go for movies. Any relation takes little time to build a lifetime relation so be patient. I wish every good luck for you. Bye.
2006-09-16 05:59:40 · answer #6 · answered by santra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may be stressed over sometning. When someone is stressed, he/she will not be able to think and behave cudly, loving or sexy.
Talk to him sincerely and caringly. A couple who love each other, should be able to communicate freely and frankly with each other. One should not be keeping things from the other, because a couple should share happiness as well as concerns together.
Once you are able to reach this level, you will be able to be very comfortable with each other.
Good luck to you!
2006-09-16 05:25:01 · answer #7 · answered by G.T. L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TELL HIM ABOUT WHAT YOU FEEL this will make him understand you sharing of thought is the foundation of relationship never hesitate to share you desires if they were wild too.
2006-09-16 05:38:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, you are a girl... you can melt a boys heart...... try to speak some romantic words from which his heart melts....... speak some sexy words try to be close, very close too him........ then he wont refuse to touch you..
2006-09-16 06:05:51 · answer #9 · answered by Unique 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my parents are like that, confuses the h3ll outta me, shrug. so long as he isnt pushing you away it may just be how he is, don't know what you can do but keep instigating the cuddle sessions.
2006-09-16 05:08:41 · answer #10 · answered by sweets 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a lot of physio therapy.He will jump with added strength.
2006-09-16 05:42:13 · answer #11 · answered by rajendran 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋