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2006-09-15 21:45:23 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well i will re-phrase my question... Do you think it is okay to have sex before you are out of your teens? I personally do not because until you reach adulthood you are not mature enough to deal with the consequences of sex...
2006-09-15 22:15:57 · update #1
I think ideally we all should wait for our future spouse. I don't think I cared much until I actually got married and wished I could have been with just him. It would have been nice to have that special honeymoon thing. How many people even have that anymore? I bet most people lost there virginity somewhere stupid. I know that my boyfriends basement was not the most romantic place. I also think it can cause a lot of problems. Not just stds or even pregnancy but heart break. Whether we like to admit it or not I think it is a little more painful to breakup with someone you have slept with then if you didn't. I think you give a part of yourself to those people and you really can't get it back. It is scary now the presure to be rid of this horrible virginity thing. I remember thinking that. Wouldn't it be nice if virginity was something to charish again and not something to scorn.
2006-09-15 22:13:26 · answer #1 · answered by Constant_Traveler 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe in waiting until marriage. There's always the possibility of slipping up in a weak moment when someone makes a vow to abstain. And in that weak moment, proper precautions might not be taken. It's better to plan it out and be ready for it, regardless of being married or not.
2006-09-15 21:56:14 · answer #2 · answered by i luv teh fishes 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
No i think this shud not happen... the right time to do it is after marriage just try it and then i will find out that this is really true.... you have to trust who u marry
2006-09-15 23:41:15 · answer #3 · answered by farooq_sap 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you have to before marraige. What if you get to your honeymoon and he completely sucks in bed, then your screwed. Im not saying be a whore or anything.Only with someone that you love but you gotta test him out before you marry him.
2006-09-15 21:53:09 · answer #4 · answered by danielle 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
sex before marriage is a BIG thumbs-down.
2006-09-15 22:37:30 · answer #5 · answered by NOTurBFF!! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is not good. may get HIV, AIDS or pregnant. think before decide. for ladies, do not have sex before marriage as it may cause u into major trouble.
2006-09-15 22:01:11 · answer #6 · answered by dyna@cute 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i don't agree with sex before marriage .... if u get pregnant or w/ev and he leaves you?? n there r many other reasons.but the last decision is yours dude .... think twice n act.
2006-09-15 22:11:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
it's so ok. as long as you're sure of your feelings about him and you're ready with all the obstacles it may cause you both (that is pregnancy and having a baby) it's fine.
2006-09-15 22:04:59 · answer #8 · answered by faye 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I wish I would have waited. If you are a virgin reading this please save yourself for your husband if your cherry has been broken oh well to late!
2006-09-15 22:07:54 · answer #9 · answered by ljjmjd3 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you give me your address and we can try it and see.Call it a learning experience.
2006-09-15 23:32:07 · answer #10 · answered by dreamweaver021557 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋