i had a bf n we were seeing each other from a year....suddenly he asked for a break off....
2006-09-15 21:23:14 · 24 answers · asked by riya 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
This happened because he felt something bad on you...
Now think about yourself what happened exactly and correct it and make him happy immediately..as the same happens with girls also.. they also hurt boys....like ignoring things what boys tells the girls...
Go and apologize..say sorry if anyting hurt him....
See another way, may be he changed his mind after learning more about you.. it also happens...so forget him like keeping-off for few days...
2006-09-15 21:34:12 · answer #1 · answered by SA-bic 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It aren't the guys only who always hurt the girls. It happens the other way round too. Learn to distinguish between a friend (bf) and a lover. While there are some very selfish people, there are some good and unselfish ones around too. Look for the latter if you want a long lasting relationship.
2006-09-15 21:35:41 · answer #2 · answered by Modest 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he must have his reasons.. and he may not be able to tell you.. if you know that he really loves you and you really love him, then i think you should trust him.. try asking why? if he don't wan to say and he still insist on breaking off, i would suggest, you put up a brave front and agree.. do not cry in front of him...just smile and say,'if you insist, then, OK.. but i will wait for you to change your mind if you regret' or smth like that.. then u can cry when you get back home. but don't show you cant live without him.. even if u really cant. if you would still be seeing him during school/work, when he is around, show that you are as happy as possible. if he is breaking off because of another girl, i think you can really forget his guy. same thing, but don't say you'll wait for him. say smth like 'fine.. if this makes you happy.. i hope you wont ever regret your decision' use a bit of reverse psychology. since the both of you were in a relationship before, I'm pretty sure he does love you
2006-09-15 21:35:54 · answer #3 · answered by nicole 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That doesn't happen always....
talk to him if u need to.. don't beg but ask him what went wrong... he must have his own reasons and it will make u feel better if u just knew why he did it instead of wondering
but don't be upset.... in the end, you will be with somebody who will love you and value you above everything in this world and make you feel cherished and wanted, for you, it could be this guy, or somebody else more wonderful than him...
have patience, try to work things out with him if u really like him
but if it doesnt work out, don't worry, life has in store for us only that what is best for us, we may have to cope up with initial disappointment so that when we find true love, we know it's value....
take care :)
2006-09-17 03:50:33 · answer #4 · answered by priyanka g 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nobody but only u wil know if e really loves u or not.Sit quiet and analyse but dont think from emotional aspect.sometimes wen we love the person,we wil find ways to think the same from other person,but y did e wants to break-off...did u guys fight with eachother,if e said it in fit of anger,maybe e is just angry n wants to hurt u or if e is acting quite weird n distant lately,mayb e is not worth u! girls have a gift of instict,use it....if e truely loves u,e'll come back to u or just let him go or u may regret being with him for the rest of ur life,dont make that mistake....love is too strong n divine,it'll not let petty things come in-between....dont worry darlin' everything will be fine....
2006-09-15 21:40:55 · answer #5 · answered by simran v 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Riya
I really don't think that Guys always try to hurt gals ,not all guys are alike just that ur bf broke off with you , it does'nt mean that all the guys r same, jst as all fingers r not alike same is the case with guys.
well I think if the guy left you ,u can try to reason him for it,or move on.
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2006-09-16 00:56:25 · answer #6 · answered by hotchocredrose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you cheated him or maybe you have to much guys friend or maybe he is facing a big problem and he doesn't want you to get hurt maybe you aren't romantic maybe you are concentrate at your work more then spending time with him. It is not the end of the world and if you still love him, Don't Give Up keep trying.
2006-09-15 21:41:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-01 00:38:59 · answer #8 · answered by grumney 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes it happens. u cant figure out the reason behind this. u shuld try to forget everything about him. u should not spend ur time in lonliness, it creates sadness and makes us low. always try to do that things that pleases u. Someone loyal is still waiting to b entered in ur life. I have also suffered and now i am trying to keep myself busy in my work so that i forge her.
2006-09-15 21:38:44 · answer #9 · answered by s4nagu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sure that they dont do it on purpose, sometimes us girls have too high expectations of them or we get caught up in a farytale but we all know fairytales arent real life.
2006-09-15 21:26:46 · answer #10 · answered by Sweet_Miss_Toni 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋