Again and again he tells me he is sorry for all the lying and cheating and now i can trust him. I fall asleep and wake up to him gone. I find him getting drunk with 15 and 16 year old sluts next door. then he tells me I am in the wrong for asking him to come home goes balstic and leaves with the sluts. he also took my car keys and says now we are not together. I dont work and have no one here what am i supposed to do?
2006-09-15 21:14:04 · 10 answers · asked by lost_with_kids 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Call family members, friends and see if you can stay with them...Also if he took your car, report it stolen, he can date bubba in prison....
2006-09-15 21:28:19 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is there no one in your family who can help you now that he's gone? Or will they not because you have said you'd leave him soo many times? My sister had three kids and her man walked out on her and I let her move in with me and my husband. If there is no one, I'd try to see about some government assistance. I know its' not a good thing for the pride, but at least it's something. I know it takes some time to get into govn. housing but it's worth the wait. I'm not sure what you can do until then, but try to find a job. a decent one. And take the first thing that comes along, no matter how little you get paid, until something better comes along.
2006-09-16 04:31:30 · answer #2 · answered by t.larae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, first time, shame on him, second time shame on you. Sounds like this isn't the first or second time he has done this. I might and I mean might be a little forgiving the first time and first time only but if it happened again, there is no way in hell I would forgive him. I would never had children with him if this is how he was behaving. Sounds like you're definately in a pickle there butter cup. Does he work, make good money or what? I'd hang his butt out to dry, take him for everything he has and then some. Call your family or friends for a shoulder to cry on then dry those eyes and nail his butt to the wall. And whatever you do, DO NOT TAKE HIM BACK AGAIN!!!!
2006-09-16 04:18:15 · answer #3 · answered by Sandi A 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh hon, he is so immature. Find a women's shelter. They can give you a safe place to be and maybe a bus ticket to get with some family who can help you get back on your feet.
Check with a local church. Find someone to help you. Get yourself and your kids in a safe place before he starts to beat on you., Kids are better off being from a broken home than living in a broken house.
Don't put up with this any longer.
Let's hope he puts down the keys soon so you can at least have your car to get away. Start saving your get aways money. Have some bags prepacked
2006-09-16 04:34:01 · answer #4 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am so sorry for u but life have to go on
either find a way to make it work or u juz avoid the truth go to ur parents for help at least ur mom can take care of ur children when u go to work and take care of the house chores
in return give her some money
file for divorce and ask him not to come back this kind of husband u don't need him ur children don't need him i fu love ur children u should do the best for them u can make it
u will make all women proud
2006-09-16 04:20:21 · answer #5 · answered by astrid 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i only wish i had the resources to help you. if you were in my area i would come and help you in a minute. Please reach out to any family; resources, help in your area. You do not need a man to make you whole.. Your kids need a Father, but you can do something, (whatever it takes) to make a life for your children and yourself. Please don't put up with the lies and BS just so you have a "man???" in your childrens home. If you are working hard and trying, you will feel satisfied and it will show in you and your childresn' behavior. Good Luck and I wish I could help you person to person/
2006-09-16 04:27:54 · answer #6 · answered by shannamac 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no one can tell you what to do you have to do this on your own well first try to get some help for you and your kids and than contact your family and have them send you a gray hound bus ticket and go home you'd be better off with out him God bless you and the best of luck
2006-09-16 08:20:17 · answer #7 · answered by Libra 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop your self pity, drag him to court, don't give up and don't take him back no matter what, if you have a joint account in the bank then empty it and start a new account in only your name. Ask your family and friends to help you BUT DON'T WASTE TIME ON HIM OR ON SELF PITY
2006-09-16 04:20:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are the 3rd wheel, Time to go. One day at a time sweet Jesus,, Call the cops on his A**, hi ho hi ho off to jail we go.
2006-09-16 04:19:33 · answer #9 · answered by dmncprkr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have never got involved with him in the first place...
2006-09-16 04:17:48 · answer #10 · answered by A K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋