I've been friends with this girl for a long time, and we've went on a couple of dates before. But because I was with an ex at the time, I never pursued her, and she hooked up with another guy. We are still very good friends and she still tells me about her problems and it seems that shes having alot of problems with her boyfriend. What she doesn't know is that I'm very much in love with her. What should I do? I really want to tell her to break up with the guy and she probably will listen to me if I tell her, but my conscience won't let me do such a thing. I'm going to a party with her tomorrow, she said she would call me and not let her boyfriend know...is this wrong? Should I pursue her? What should I do?
2006-09-15 21:07:16 · 12 answers · asked by Pluck That Chicken 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Stay to the side,give things time to develop.
Don't butt in or help things along
What will be will be.
2006-09-15 21:11:21 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speaking from experience, your best card is to tell er how you feel, because she may not be able to read your mind, or heart. If you dont tell her, you will regret it. Life i short and you only live once, go for it, it might end up being a good thing. Oh and dont sneak around her boyfriend's back, trust me, it'll only create more confusion and problems. If you want her, seriusly, then wait untill she decides if she wants you too, you dont want to hook up under that situation. Good luck and listen to your heart, it amost never fails. xoxo
2016-03-27 03:45:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell her how you feel for her. I don't think you should suggest that you ask her to break up with her boyfriend though, if after you tell her how you feel about her and she feels the same way too, she should be able to make that decision of breaking up with her boyfriend without you asking her.Good luck.
2006-09-15 21:16:00 · answer #3 · answered by marisu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like if she is already having problems with the guy then just let nature take its course. Because if you go telling her to dump him and then you hit her up, she might put two and two together and be upset with you.
2006-09-15 21:10:02 · answer #4 · answered by Sandi A 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bloooooooooo
2006-09-15 21:10:49 · answer #5 · answered by Pauline 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think is its not wrong if she is not comfortable with her boyfriend.
And my suggestion to you that go man in the party coz it is the best chance that GOD has blessed you. So go with her and say what you feel about her.
May be she is looking for that you express your feelings and that’s why she want to go with you not with her boyfriend ..............good luck
2006-09-15 21:31:17 · answer #6 · answered by loving a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude let her reslove her issue and do not break the them let the couple go through their motions.
remember always practice honesty and encourage her to practice it also. do not let her pull you into her ways whether not you have feelings for her. your friend so there is not reason for you to be hidden or not spoken of.
2006-09-15 21:29:33 · answer #7 · answered by concrete water 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man the biggest thing you can do is break them up. Wait for him to mess up then you can swoop in and save her broken heart. Trust me if you do anything that causes them to break up and she finds out your plans for happily everafter will not work out like you planned.
2006-09-15 21:13:20 · answer #8 · answered by Austin R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't make problemes,and tell her.it is easy case.i don't understand your trouble.you would be in greater trouble,if her bfr would be your friend..imagine...that would be a real great morality trouble.but i think,they have problemes,so the love is not so great,and u have the occasion to talk about what u feel.
so go for it!
2006-09-15 21:14:41 · answer #9 · answered by andrea 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stand up
2006-09-15 21:10:13 · answer #10 · answered by Snifer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋