my boyfriend or ex boyfriend whatever i dont know what he is...moved to another state and it was supposedly over (according to him) yet he still calls me and acts like were still in a relationship. and sometimes it feels like we are together and at other it feels like were not. well im still commited to him and would never think of dating someone else and i think he feels the same way....but its stupid because its either were together or were not right? so what do you guys think are we together or not?
2006-09-15 20:41:28 · 11 answers · asked by datgirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You are not physically together, yet you are mentally bound to him. Only you can break it off. It's in your own mind. If you can deal with long distance relationships, (most can't), then that is what you have. If you find that you can't, then you are the one that will have to let him know this.
2006-09-15 20:59:08 · answer #1 · answered by classyjazzcreations 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your not sure yourself then your not together. If you are sure you care about him the way you say you do, you better make sure he feels the same way. What if he's not commited to you like you "think" he is. He might just be using you to comfort himself. You should definitely talk to him about him and make sure he says yes or no. Not maybe or we'll see. Dont let him beat around the bush. Get to the point. He wants you or he doesnt. He can't just use you to his benefit. Unless you let him, which you shouldnt.
2006-09-16 03:45:42 · answer #2 · answered by MJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You guys need to talk about it and see what you both want. Probably it's hard for him to forget about you and it's hard for you too. Discuss the situation and see if you guys can ever be together since he is in another state.
2006-09-16 03:45:42 · answer #3 · answered by Niki 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesn't matter what "we guys think". You need to finalize the status of your "relationship" with him. If it's over, move on. If it's not over, it's not over. the thought to keep in mind is this - is he stringing you along for quickies if he ever comes back into town? I would be VERY cautious.
2006-09-16 03:46:06 · answer #4 · answered by testrun66 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he's calling you because it's comfortable. He can get reassurance from you and get your attention, but because he's called off, he's free to play the field. I think you should consider it off and keep your options open, too.
2006-09-16 03:45:11 · answer #5 · answered by wahine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope you are not together. He is not in state, he doesn't want to be with you ... he just doesn't want you to be happy with someone else.
Time to move on, email me :)
2006-09-16 03:43:15 · answer #6 · answered by tomgreenfanus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont listen to sexy baby, forget him and go to sleep
2006-09-16 03:48:34 · answer #7 · answered by bunbury 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to confront him and sort out whether he is or he is ex
2006-09-16 03:44:01 · answer #8 · answered by trishul60 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think so..
if he thinks that they you have to tell him how you feel
2006-09-16 03:43:40 · answer #9 · answered by Idk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wake up girl! he's playing w/ur emotions...
2006-09-16 03:45:23 · answer #10 · answered by 2D1iLuV 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋