No preg symptoms, but hard stomach! pls help. help only 14?

Question

So my bf and i had no sexual intercourse but he rubbed his penis against my vaginal area. he didnt come...but he might have had pre-***. that happened on the 8th of august and i got my period on the 24th of august. I have experienced no symptoms till then. but my stomach seems to be getting big:/ this might all be in my head an all but it s worrying me. It wont go in a lot when i breathe in and stuff and it s kinda...hard i think. im expecting my period to come in a week. since then he has fingered me and i happen to bleed after this happens, i think it s beacuase his nails are a bit sharp and he might have cut my inside. what do u think? pls help

oh dear, thanks for being so helpufl :)

Answer 1

Honey, it's probably in your mind. From what you've described, you have very very little chance of being pregnant.

You know what's wrong with you? It's guilt and maybe a little confusion too! It's what a lot of you kids are suffering from when you post this kind of question. Because you don't even know what is going on in your own bodies, you are over your heads, so you worry about silly stuff like this.

In regard to you bleeding when he fingers, that's what happens when you let little boys like that touch your tender bits. They have all the finesse of a bull in a china shop, he doesn't know what the hell he's doing and neither do you. Besides, you need to speak up when someone is hurting you or better yet - keep them away entirely!

You and your boyfriend need to keep your pants on and your hands above the waist for the next couple of years. Enjoy the kissing, believe me when you start having sex, all that lovely kissing goes right out the window, enjoy it now. Besides, you're only 14 and sex isn't going anywhere. Sex will still be around in a few years when you're a little older and better prepared for it. You have all the time in the world.

Answer 2

Can you STOP TRYING TO HAVE SEX!!!! You are not old enough and you do not know anything about the symptoms of pregnancy and safe sex, because if you did you would not be here asking us these questions. You are still a child, and one who is well on her way to ending up with a teenage pregnancy, and abortion may take the baby away but you will never forget that you killed your child.
You need to take time to learn about safe sex and practice it, but the best thing is to stay away from sex. Any boy your age will not give you sexual satisfaction due to lack of experience. You will just give him pleasure and in the end get pregnant after a sexual experience you did not even enjoy!
I do not think you are pregnant, but to put your mind at ease instead of waiting for your period next week as anxiety can cause a delay in your period, I think that you should go into a pharmacy and buy yourself a pregnancy test kit, and read the instructions carefully and do the tst first thing in the morning.
And if you were pregnant, your stomach would not get hard and start swelling in the first month. That will usually be between the third and fourth month. I also think that you should talk to your mum or a school counselor or any other responsible adult. Take care of yourself.

Answer 3

I think for 14 you are playing around way more than you should be not just because of your age, but because of your lack of knowledge. I seriously doubt you are pregnant.You sound scared and possibly constipated. If it would make you feel better go to the drug store and get a pregnancy test. I also think you should go to the school nurse and have her or preferably your mom or an aunt tell you the facts of life.You should not be doing things you know practically nothing about.You are going to get yourself into trouble.If you are bleeding from his fingernails you could get an infection you would not know you had, and it could inflame your reproductive tract. It could even make it so you could never have babies.You are in way over your head. Slow down you have your whole life ahead of you. Sex is a serious thing not just fun. Learn about sex first. A good rule of thumb is if you can't talk about it don't do it.If you can't talk to you mom or an aunt or an older sister.
Go to planned parenthood and talk to someone there [it is confidential.
Go to the library and read "Everything you every wanted to know about sex but were afraid to ask" The librarian probably won't let you check it out because of your age. But you can go off in a corner and read it. At least while your in the library you won't be getting into things you don't understand the consequences of. A lot of teenage mothers started out doing just what your doing.Don't be one of them.Motherhood is tough enough for grown-ups.

Answer 4

You need to let a parent or guardian know so that you will some one to help you along if you are pregnant. Go to any store that sells at home pregnancy tests, buy 2 of them and use one the first day, and the other the next. If they both show negative, you need to be seen by a doctor to determine if you are or are not. You need to know as soon as possible, so that if you are, you can begin getting vitamins for yourself and for the baby! Whatever you do, don't wait around to find out! You will be in my prayers.

Answer 5

What do I think????

I think you need to wait until your are legal & stop experimenting before this age. Your 14 for gods sake, enjoy your childhood, you have plenty of time to grow up!

It is hardly likely that you are pregnant, your stomach maybe getting harder as your period is due.

If you are going to continue (which you probably are) get him to cut his fingernails, there are all kinds of germs that can fester under there. If you catch anything it could damage your fertility for the future.

Also, please use condoms or get the pill or something so you don't get pregnant. Even if you are not having penetrative sex yet, as you say, he might pre c.um inside you.

Good luck & stay safe :-)

Answer 6

First go to planned parenthood or a health dept for a check up then stop acting like adults when you could never be ready for the out come. Your actions affect more than a few minutes of fun do you really want to risk ruining the rest of your future for a boy who will run the minute he hears you might be pregnant. For you life and his think about this before you continue to risk it.

Answer 7

Pregnancy tests are only accurate within a few weeks of getting pregnant because after, the hCG hormone isn't detectable. A visit to the doctor is your best bet.

Answer 8

Well, if u feel that you are pregnant...Then u most probably are... Cuz' nothing is better than a woman's natural birthing instincts... But if you really wan to make sure, then go buy a pregancy test kit...Dun be afraid.... And you will also need to tell your bf and parents...

Answer 9

If you have had a period since sexual contact it is unlikely that you are pregnant, but you probably need to do a test, just to be on the safe side.

Get this guy to sort his nails out.

Good luck.

Answer 10

You need to stop letting this boy touch you...you are too young...you are going to end up getting pregnant....don't ruin your future