Is it ok to not be a virgin at age 16?

Question

is it, people say it doesn't matter, but maybe i made mistake, but she was really hot, and i really liked her, it wasn't that much of our fault that's just how we reacted.

Answer 1

Well, in that case... pork her some more!!! :)

Answer 2

as long as you used protection, then i say it's your choice.

to let you in on a secret - i was 21 when i lost my virginity.
it was through nerves about asking a girl to go all the way.

i now realise that while my friends were off having sex, i wasn't missing it because i never had it. i suppose i was a bit jealous about that fact but i wasn't bothered too much.

just remember that while you have done it, you don't always need to do it.

if you are still with this girl (or even a new girl), just date like normal couples do - movies, evenings out, even playing cards or watching TV at home. earn each others respect and you will find you have more in common than just sex
you don't need to keep having sex because that's what you have already done.
if you don't brag about it to everyone then who's gonna know?

in the end it is your life and you should be allowed to do pretty much what you want - just as long as no-one gets hurt.

it's all about growing up, and learning about life.

Answer 3

That's probably a common age for people to lose their virginity. It's not terrible but it's certainly not something to brag about. If you're gonna have sex at this age what you absolutely should do is practice safe sex. Very, very few 14 or 16 or 18 yr old's are mature enough, or ready, to handle parenthood.

Answer 4

to me?? i think people should wait until they're atleast out of school. high school kids tend to talk to much about their sex lives, even w/o telling the truth. i also think that people should wait until after school because of all the "accidents" that can happen as a result of sex. no matter how much protection may be used, something can happen. i understand that when in you're in the moment sometimes it's hard to take control of your senses, we are all human. but ideally, i'd say best to wait a little longer.
i wouldn't beat yourself up for it, just make sure you take precautions.

p.s. u will never hear me say wait until marriage because i think you should atleast share the experience with the person u plan to spend the rest of ur life with before the vows to know whether or not u r sexually compatible.

Answer 5

Its alright for a guy but if a girl does then its a different story for most ppl. I dont think it matters at all as long as your in love or you really like the person thats all that matters

Answer 6

I think it's young for either of the sexes.
Doesn't mean you've done a wrong thing or that you have to continue doing it again. You're questioning it, so you yourself might think it's too young. You're an adult much longer than a child so enjoy youth while you can.
Hope you were both protected.

Answer 7

I had a male friend who was a virgin until like 24 and a female friend that still is at 22. there is nothing wrong with either of them, it's a choice. when you're ready, you'll be ready, give yourself time to grow.

Answer 8

16 is a tender age.
u should not thing on such line at this point of time.
u have lot other imp things u have make ur career so stop concentrating on such trivia things it does nt matter wot matters is how success full u become in ur life.

Answer 9

Yes it's okay. I was until I was 17 1/2.

Answer 10

Well we are all formed by our own life experiences. You don't need approval to justify them. You can do anything you like as long as you are willing to accept the outcome, whether it be positive or negative.
By the way, are you a celebrity? this is the section about celebrities.

Answer 11

Don't be hard on yourself. Learn from it. Move on. As far as saying "it doesn't matter," hey, your life matters---all of it, so follow your gut and be less impulsive the next time so you can be more sure of your decision.