I know with all my heart that my man does not and would never cheat on me. It seems that men & women both think that ALL men cheat or would if they were given the opportunity. I am certainly no naive little girl. I'm a grown, intelligent woman with a lot of life experience so it angers me (& him) when people lump my fella in with all the rest. I absolutely, positively know that he would never cheat on me. Am i the only one that knows this about their partner? Are their other men out there who can honestly say they would never cheat on their woman?
2006-09-15 19:37:20 · 14 answers · asked by punkvixen 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
garden.. dont make assumptions im probably older than you. Perhaps he doesnt cheat on me because i dont have a bad attitude towards all men like yours.
2006-09-15 19:53:23 · update #1
many are talking about given the opportunity or given the freedom. He has all the freedom in the world to go/do anything/anywhere he likes. we are really open & i could encourage him to see other women & he is just not interested
2006-09-15 19:59:42 · update #2
Thank goodness I finally have met someone who feels the same way I do.
Yes there is cheaters with both genders. Does that classify everyone in this world has cheated or will cheat? Nope.
My man is one of a kind that it is rare now adays to find. He respects females, opens doors, pays for practically everything just because "I like to" is what he says. He has never cheated. Actually, the girls he was with is the cheaters. (I know the girls. He is my best friend and very first bf back in middle school).
I know in my heart he is faithful and he has had the "opportunities". he is in the military for peak sake. Thailand and Japan is the main land to get some if wanted. but instead of going out at night after work, he would come back to his room and call me or get on web cam til he had to go to sleep every single night for over 5 months. Only time he couldn't is if he was in the field, which strictly cuts them off from communication on everything. Male only training at that.
It annoys me when people roll their eyes or say "but you don't know if you don't see him" routine. I don't need to see him to know he is faithful! I know him all these years and he has never once even raised his voice or anything to a female. He isn't the "arguing type" either.
I think those who make comments like that are just trying to justify their jealousy of not being able to have that type of relationship and trust with their own partner, if they have one that is.
Garden: It looks like you are the one that needs to grow up more and experience life. Not all guys will cheat when given the oppurt. Mine didn't and won't. When I read that statement to him, he laughed and said you sound like a 14 year old who has a lot of anger still about a guy cheating on you.
2006-09-15 20:06:01 · answer #1 · answered by Mutchkin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ALL men will cheat given the opportunity. You are just young and haven't experienced it yet. Unless yours is so ugly that no one would have him, he will have an opportunity to cheat...chances are that he will if you are not getting along that week or you are away etc. Men do not know how to love. They leave their kids in a heartbeat for a young chick. Most women could never do that. You'll see.....
You may be older than me if you have grands...I speak from the experience of knowing many cheaters, cheated on's and seeing men leave their kids to move in with a new girl. I don't have a bad attitude towards men, they are just not built for faithfulness, they are a lot like male dogs. I have NEVER met a man that hasn't cheated and I think a guy answered as much below. And I am not talking about just men I dated, I mean ones I knew, worked with etc. Let's talk when it happens to you..unless you're almost ready for death. ps. he may have already done it and learned his lesson...I wouldn't put that past him.....love and lust are two seperate things...but men are surely more lustful than loving!
2006-09-15 19:45:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
my bf has never cheated on me and i can confidentially say he never will cheat on me.
i believe that some men do cheat, because they are not happy in their relationship. I've cheated on boyfriends in the past because i was not satisfied with the relationship. i am thankful everyday that i met someone who makes me so happy and loved.
i want to spend the rest of my life with him and i can honestly say that i have never thought about being with another man. i will never cheat on him, there is no one in this world who i would rather be with.
as far as being given the opportunity, any man who genuinely loves their partner would turn down the opportunity, no matter who it is.
not all men cheat!
and not all men are dirty pigs.
there are still plenty good and faithful men out there.
you just have to look a little harder.
2006-09-15 21:24:02 · answer #3 · answered by lovepinkyxoxo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know I have seen alot in here about cheating spouses but the answer is no your husband isn't the only one that doesn't cheat my husband doesn't cheat either I get tired of hearing that too off people saying all men cheat or give them a chance they will cheat too they have no right to judge our husband because they do not know him just because other women's husbands cheat doesn't mean other women's husbands will cheat too I think alot of women judge men the same way cause it makes them feel better to put the blame on other women's husbands too one day this woman wrote me cause I said I'm glad my husband doesn't cheat she wrote and said so what does it make you special cause your husband doesn't cheat?? I said no but it makes him special
2006-09-15 19:51:47 · answer #4 · answered by blondeqtwitanicebooty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi there, hope you are right about what you are saying. Never met a man who hadn't cheated on his girl before or who hasn't thought of it before. Guess its just common for men to do that. Men by nature are like that and I think that if you give him the freedom, he will eventually cheat if he hasn't done it before. I love my wife and would never leave her for another woman but that does not make me a saint. I am not saying that it is not impossible to meet a male like that but it is highly improbable. Guess you get the picture. Just got to say good luck and keep doing whatever you are doing to keep him faithful.
p.s. hope your mind is not clouded by love and being naive
2006-09-15 19:53:30 · answer #5 · answered by osito 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cheating relatively has extra to do with the Cheater relatively than the Cheat-ee - some egos have a hollow that they try to fill- and subconsciously or consciously they sense entitled to extra interest, affection, confirmation... It has no longer something to do with love- this is relatively extra approximately self-loathing, and perceived desires as against relatively desires. whilst adult men or women cheat- they understand this is incorrect, and this is incorrect because of the fact hurting somebody else is in no way good for your self. some human beings stay in a deeper state of denial than others. they could rationalize cheating with the help of telling themselves that they deserve tru love or happiness- yet the two one in each of those start up from interior. Love is a call- so is happiness, and you will distract your self with new human beings or stories, yet quicker or later you capture as much as your self after which you ought to start as quickly as extra or fix the subject.
2016-12-18 11:10:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Although not extinct, I am certain that there are still a few good men out there who wouldn't cheat. They have their hearts fixed to the one they love, who can be trusted that they would keep their hands off to women, they have their eyes solely for the love of their lives, they have their lives entwined to their soul mate, their love is unbounded by distance and even time, honorable men who would say "no" to disloyalty and these men, would avoid acting on feelings of love other than the one they truly love. He may meet a woman who strongly attracts them, whom they feel like loving, but because it would be destructive to their marriage or it would hurt their "loved one" to have an affair, He will say vocally or in the silence of their heart, "I feel like loving you, but I am not going to.- to those few good men out there- I SALUTE YOU!- we all do! - WE ARE PROUD OF YOU!!- HATS OFF TO ALL OF YOU!
2006-09-15 20:01:49 · answer #7 · answered by yunesa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's still alot of people men and women alike who do not or can say that they won't cheat. However, there are countless of temptations along the way and it is up to them if they can resist, which i think most can.
2006-09-15 19:43:10 · answer #8 · answered by Nes S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do not be smart enough what you mean by cheating?
I hope you have the fear of loosing your man!(if not o.k)
Tell him even if he cheat you, will you ready to forgive him?
Forgiveness can mould a person in better form.
Are we perfect?
hat about our thoughts?
IS there no evil in our heart?
2006-09-15 19:42:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I’m a man… I don’t cheat…
So the answer to your question is ‘No’!!!
Just for the record…
A lot of women cheat on their partners…
That doesn’t mean they all do !!!
2006-09-15 19:39:34 · answer #10 · answered by I_C_Y_U_R 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋