ok one i know is gay and then there's the mystery one that i know nothing about, not even his name. all i know about mystery boy is he's the hotter of the 2 and i saw him lookin at me yesterday. which should i go after?
2006-09-15 19:28:09 · 21 answers · asked by Alex 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
You know one is gay, you think the other is interested - you're interested in each to some extent or you wouldn't ask. Why not get to know each of them at the same time? After spending some time with each, you'll know a lot more about how they feel about you and how you feel about them. There is no rush, so take your time and have some fun.
2006-09-15 21:19:35 · answer #1 · answered by Todd W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take your chance with the mystery man first and see what happens. If it turns out he's straight at least you'll know now and go get the gay one! Good luck babe.
2006-09-15 19:32:07 · answer #2 · answered by Jeff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, you should find out more about all the guys that you wanna go for, it would soo suck if you went with the one that you knew about and then you miss out on then mystery guy which could be like 1 in a million
2006-09-15 19:30:28 · answer #3 · answered by Danielle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is the gay guy nice? are you just looking for a hook-up or a boyfriend? try talking to them often the hot guys aren't so hot after you get to know them, pretty but empty. there's no rush is there, talk to them both or go out with them both, it's not like you're going to be in a serious relationship right away (i hope) good luck!
2006-09-16 21:36:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a shallow way of weighing things out. Have you gotten to know anything about the inside of men you look for? It is an important part of the process.
2006-09-15 21:17:56 · answer #5 · answered by Cub6265 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alex, it's simple on a purely superficial level go for the hotter one. Yeah, you might risk rejection, but some risks (believe me) are worth taking.
2006-09-15 19:44:37 · answer #6 · answered by waggy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The hotter one. You said in your post earlier that he kept looking at you. He is definately gay. If not, there is always the other one!
2006-09-15 19:29:27 · answer #7 · answered by cherry_kissez376 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is possible that mystery boy was looking at you but not checking you out untill you find out more about him i would be careful to save embaresment and possibly go for the other guy sorry if this dosn't help
2006-09-15 19:30:38 · answer #8 · answered by bambi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get to know the one that you don't know...see where it all goes from there. If he was lookin at you he must be interested in something. don't rush in to anything especially with the first guy. I did that recently and now i can't get this guy off my mind...but i'm pretty sure i'm not on his. keep your options open. its better that way.
2006-09-15 19:32:15 · answer #9 · answered by nicolea0329 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thrill will always be the best one. Oops i mean the mystery guy.
2006-09-15 19:50:10 · answer #10 · answered by javo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋