How do I get through this?

Question

I am 38 years old and currently going through AI to get pregnant. The first time I tried, everything went like clockwork--I ovulated right on time and went in for AI. Unfortunately, I didn't get pregnant and got my period 4 days early. Then when I was supposed to ovulate again (which has been consistent around day 12-14 for 6 months) I didn't ovulate between day 12-14. I started panicking that I would never ovulate again. I had to order a "specimien" for delivery becuase it was over Labor Day weekend and they were closed. The thing only stays frozen for 7 days in the container they provide. Well, the specimen went bad before I actually ovulated---which was day 18 (but would have been right on target if I had my period at the normal time).

I am getting ready for my period again and another round. I know I have to relax, but in the back of my mind I'm worried that things won't work out this time becuase of what happened last time. How do I relax and not get paranoid??

Answer 1

stress is a problem ,May be if you try to not think about it too much just think of it like a job you have to do with no out come for you personally ,detach ,see if that helps.good luck ,its a hard thing to do it alone but then half of us end up alone anyway ,don't we..

Answer 2

I t is very difficult,
Go tothe movies, do somethig completely stupid
most of all spend lees time on you own
that might help you not to think to much about it

Answer 3

that is very terrible to think in a such coprihensive way! relax and enjoy normal intercourse only and keep on treatment Dr. [e-mail]

Answer 4

Maybe you need to get out more. Let nature take its course.

Answer 5

You should pray about it! God will help you!