my penis is about 11 inches length and about 2.5 inches thickness and ofcourse it is a big problem to me because it is unsusal size it is very shameing specially when it is erected, and however i wear wide clothes it is appear and people can notice it through trousers , it make me very shy, specially i work in a big company with lots of people and also i deal with lots of women and it sometimes erected while speaking to them
also when i go to beach all people look at me , it make me very very shy
i feel that i have strong arm bitween my legs not a penis
i have 4 questions pls
how can i do to get over this shame ?
do you think women i work with will hate me when they opserve my bulg?
do girls prefer big penis or it make them afraid? (i know how to use it)
when i marry a woman and have sex with her , will that hurt her?
2006-09-15
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My most recent ex-boyfriend was blessed like you are with a very large package, and he also got hard very easily and frequently. I guess that comes with the territory, but do not worry. Just wear well fitting boxer breifs to help keep you down a little and loose pants. Also when you're working and you feel it growing, just try to focus on something that turns you off or make an excuse to go to the bathroom and cool off.
To answer your 4 questions:
1) Be Proud! You are blessed with the big package that women crave. You are lucky and women love it I promise!
2) I think women at work might get the wrong idea about you if you're always bulging, you have to work on controlling your errections with your thoughts or at least work on hiding it so no one notices.
3) Women will say they are afraid and they are a little, but mostly they're excited to see what it will feel like and when they do, they will LOVE IT!!! A large penis takes adjusting to, so be gentle with a new partner and use lots of lubrication gel! After a few weeks, you will fit without any discomfort and she will not want a 7 inch average joe ever again!
4) Only the first few weeks, the vagina has to strech and adjust to your size. The skin might break a little like when your lips are chapped and they tear a little...same thing. Use neosporin after sex and this will not hurt her as much.
2006-09-15 19:40:24
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answered by Lady G 2
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I think you need to learn how to control getting erections around women. That is NOT good and women will think you are creepy if you continue to do this around them. Men only get errections when they are aroused so what are you thinking around them? Thats the first thing you want to look at. The questions about the size & will women like it? Some women will love the fact that it is this big but you are right, many will be afraid. You will have to learn how to be gentle and not just dive straight in as that could be painful. From the way that you have worded it, I am assuming that you do not believe in sex before marriage. Is that right? I think that could be a real issue for you & any future wife because it may take a lot of practice to learn how to work with it.
2006-09-15 19:11:47
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answered by punkvixen 5
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lucky man slightly above average at 7" . studies have found that overall all men's penises will expand when blood is pumped into them for sexual response or stimulation. ( other than medical issues) but few are aware that those whom have smaller flaccid penises tend to have greater expansion and achieve a much higher enlarged state than men with normally large flaccid penises. eg larger can vary from only 20% expansion to 40% smaller can have from 60% to a recorded 300% expansion most females are very happy with 6" or longer and after 9" it can even cause discomfort in some females. it is more about thickness for satisfaction for a majority of females. when cajoled over smaller penis simply smile and say. .. when you know about expansion sizes for penises you may want to swap. get thicker trousers etc for a start or wear jeans. these trying to bully you are not aware of real facts and like all bullies try and make them selves feel better or larger by picking on anybody who stands out in any way eg red hair. spots and so on.
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answered by ? 4
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I am not sure whether woman like it or not because I am still a virgin. I am affraid to see this size, my bf is just 7.5" length and 2.3" thick, I am having a lot of problem to get him inside me. I am in a lot of pain not even half of the penis head inserted into me. I think your size will hurt a virgin but I am not sure about a woman highly experience in sex.
2006-09-15 23:00:27
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answered by jessjesschoy 1
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Stop being shy about that. You have been given a gift and MANY girls would love to have that to jump in bed with. If a woman and man takes their time with intercourse and learn each other's bodies it could be very pleasurable for both. Just be gentle and no hard thrusting, let her lead to see how much she can withstand and to let her muscles stretch to accomodate. Wear baggier clothes if you are worried about showing your bulge, but I wouldn't even worry. Carry yourself with confidence-- you have what most guys wish they had and what most girls crave to satisfy them.
2006-09-15 19:11:52
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answered by wow 3
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You have nothing to be ashamed of. I have a 7 inch penis at 1.5 inches and some of the girls im with could take alot more. you seem shy but please realize that you are blessed and a woman would have a hard time replacing you.
2006-09-15 19:09:15
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answered by Anonymous
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Ok, in all honesty 11 inches is large, but there are many men out there with this size.It shouldnt be a problem for you or for a woman.
2006-09-15 19:17:27
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answered by Anonymous
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I wouldn't feel ashamed--there's nothing you can do about the size.If you are concerned that your erection will show, consider wearing an athletic support. You should definitely have pre-marital sex with any woman you are considering marriage with so that she will know what is coming.
2006-09-15 23:01:34
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answered by JOHN M 5
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how come nobody is ever happy with their *****? I'm happy with mine. Just wear really baggy pants or tape it to your leg or something man. Chicks will love you in the sack, just try to avoid getting wood in public and you'll be fine.And don't walk sideways through tight spaces!
2006-09-15 19:07:57
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answered by Anonymous
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You do have a problem, but it's a problem in perception. What you have done is use the centimeter side of the ruler. Best of luck when you find out your true measurement.
2006-09-15 19:07:28
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answered by Anonymous
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