basically she doesnt care if she has sex or not.
2006-09-15 18:37:20 · 18 answers · asked by j3 1 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
get someone with the same idea of love as you... some people think love needs sex.. some people don't.... you're dating a square...
2006-09-15 18:45:48 · answer #1 · answered by K3vag 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. If you've been with her long enough to fall in love, you should already be familiar with her mannerisms. Usually, people don't drastically change overnight.
2. There's more to a relationship than sex.
3. You can move on.
4. If you're really, truly "in love" with this woman, do the one thing that's lacking in so many relationships - TALK to her. Usually men are the ones that are not as communicative as women. But if you truly LOVE her, tell her how you're feeling and what you feel is lacking in your relationship. If she loves you as well, she should respond positively and you shouldn't have any problems concerning this issue.
2006-09-15 19:00:45 · answer #2 · answered by feefee2u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you went from making love a lot and now that has stopped or declined so substantially stop and think about the reasons that could be. I personally think love and the act of making love are connected and are a beautiful part of a love relationship, not the defining one though.
I would view this as a sign of changes(unfortunately bad in my opinion) in your relationship.
Talking may only go so far, because I know for a fact I'm a great communicator, honest, open and understanding but have been in relationships with women who hide everything or use carefully prepared lies and half truths for their own agendas.
As hard as it may be I want you to sit down with the one you love and ask her why things have changed. If she brushes it off or gives you b.s excuses it means she doesn't love you and her feelings have changed.
Sadly what people say and what they actually do are totally different things.
Love is something real, solid, lasting and above petty things like lust or envy etc.
Talk to her. If you don't start getting some real answers even though it will hurt you're better off walking away now before she has an affair or dumps you mercilessly etc.
Show her you're a man and your needs matter as much as hers and if you see a problem it's not you attacking her it's you trying to maintain your love.
If the love is no longer mutual (she has "fallen" out of love) it probably wasn't true love ever.
In the long run it may be better to move on and make sure you get right back out there and start dating or spend time with your friends etc. Please don't sit alone thinking about what you've lost and listening to Teddy Geiger "For you I will" and Ne-Yo "So sick" etc as it will just play your emotions and bring you down.
You will find someone who is compatible with you on enough levels and shares the same core beliefs as you, you just have to meet a lot of women and keep your standards in mind when getting to know them. Don't give yourself away to the notion of loving to be in love.
Realistically if you don't get out there and meet people and get on with life you will be stuck in a time warp and continue to feel pain unnecessarily.
Women may not like me saying this but the facts are if a woman breaks up with you she can go to a bar the same night and get attention and have guys approach her and be having sex with someone else that same night. Men when our hearts are broken tend to feel a sharp shot to our egos and feel like we're not all that anymore. It's due to supply and demand and social engineering that has demeaned the value of the male and the exultation of the female goddess.
There are amazing women out there and there are emotionally corrupt, weak, manipulative, jealous, disloyal ones also. Don't undermine your own value by being with someone who doesn't deserve you.
The next woman I give my heart to will be the woman I marry. I hold marriage in the highest regard and don't believe in drive- through divorces.
Check out some of my questions to get some perspective, perhaps you're similar in personality to me and you just might gain something.
Good Luck Bro.
Please answer my question:
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AoH21kpMEjq2PIQCyCew8NTsy6IX?qid=20060916005130AAMQyQA
2006-09-15 21:28:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Give some indications that you are in love to her... but if the one you are in love with still doesn't give a hint of her affection to you... then make friend to her and look for other love somewhere. There are other ladies out there that you'll find attractive as time goes on.
2006-09-15 18:51:24 · answer #4 · answered by wacky_racer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, if you speak like you type, I wouldn't either. Have you asked her what she wants? Maybe she has never been satisfied. Maybe love does not equal sex to her. Try talking. Try a little romance. Try getting her to open up and be honest.
2006-09-15 18:50:25 · answer #5 · answered by glitz_and_glitter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is patient; love is kind. Love is not jealous, it does not put on airs, it is not snobbish. Love is never rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not prone to anger; neither does it brood over injuries. Love does not rejoice in what is wrong but rejoices with the truth. There is no limit to love's forbearance, to its trust, its hope, its power.
2006-09-19 05:01:38 · answer #6 · answered by Giggly Giraffe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to find someone that has ideals closer to your own......
And you also need to learn that love does not equal sex .......love without sex is still love
sex without love is just a booty call........
2006-09-15 18:52:20 · answer #7 · answered by Mintjulip 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
il stop loving him & look 4 someone who's willing 2 luv me back
2006-09-15 22:13:03 · answer #8 · answered by 2D1iLuV 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey what are you asking?
Doesnot show no love means shows love/
You must ask does not show any love.
2006-09-15 18:47:29 · answer #9 · answered by Winter_16 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave your love one..and get one that will will Love you....
2006-09-15 20:28:03 · answer #10 · answered by qdrama1956 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋