i just found out my boyfriend chested on me and i was really in love with him. i want to break up with him but for some reason i can't and it's killing me inside. i'am sitting crying my eyes out trying to decide but it's hard. i feel as through i need him and to know that he don't feel the same about me, hurts bad. i can't take this pain i'am feeling any more and some thing need to be done but i don't know what to do ,s o thats why i'am asking you for help. so tell me the truth about what you think . do u think i'am stuid for feeling this way.
2006-09-15 18:12:47 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I dont think youre stupid at all. I know how you feel. I was cheated on many times by the same guy. I am here to tell you, if he did it once, hell do it again. This is when you have to be strong and break it off. It will be hard in the beginning and youll want to call or take him back, but remember you dont HAVE to have anyone. Hes not worth your love and affection if he couldnt respect you enough to be true to you.
2006-09-15 18:16:08 · answer #1 · answered by bandcamp 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You're not stupid in any way, pain is something that doesn't go away overnight and if you dwell on pain as much as early, you'll learn to let go of it as fast. TIME heals all wounds. In few weeks/months, you'll be able to laugh it all off.
Dump him if you really feel he doesn't deserve a second chance. most of the cheaters I know do still cheat no matter how many times they've said they won't do it again. You'll meet someone more faithful and won't take you as for granted as this guy.
2006-09-15 18:23:46 · answer #2 · answered by kamahalan_12 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My Dear it is still a very fresh breakup. So the first thing I will say is - give it time. In time it won't hurt so much. It happened to me as well. I know it hurts alot right now but time really heals all !!
I think that u respect urself first and don't need this abuse from him. It really is abuse. He does not respect u at all. Which means he is very selfish person. You deserve someone who will respect u and care for u.
Don't call him again!!
2006-09-15 18:23:08 · answer #3 · answered by Lisa L 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
GIRL, move on! You have every right to have a faithful man. Do NOT lower your standards. You don't want to waste time. It will hurt, you have put your heart on the line and you were deceived. Time is a good healer and everything happens for a reason. Although it doesn't seem that way right now. I'm pulling for you be strong.
2006-09-15 18:20:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if he doesn't feel any love for you anymore, then there is no reason to still be with him. give yourself some respect. he's not the only man available. i would rather that you get hurt now when you dump him and then get over him after a while. rather than go on with the relationship and get hurt always.
2006-09-15 18:26:06 · answer #5 · answered by Coolitz 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1st of all you are not stupid. He is the one who is stupid, you obviously are a sweet caring individual. He obviously doesn't see what is in front of him. He doesn't realise how great a person you are. I know it is tough I've been there. But you will get over this. I suggest concentrate on your friends and family and all other people that love you. Get that dumb guy out of your head. And when you least expect it love will come your way.
2006-09-15 18:21:15 · answer #6 · answered by ~confused~ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if he cheats on u once he may do it again or not but this guy broke your heart. Do u really want him around any longer? U really dont deserve to be treated this way. They guys a jerk for that! Please dump this guy. One day a girl will do the same to him and he'll realize how hurtful it is! hope that helps :)
2006-09-15 18:20:52 · answer #7 · answered by deanda 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
leave, what if he cheats on you and gives you aids ?
youre not stupid just emotional, thats how 98 percent of females are. You feel nobody else will want you and thats why you dont know if you should leave. LeAVE, once a cheat always a cheat
2006-09-15 18:25:07 · answer #8 · answered by wilowdreams 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
remember the guy you liked before call him and f--- his brains out you will feel much better then call your x and tell him how good that guys giz tasted and how he filled you all the way up and how soar your lower half is and how come he he sucks so much, he will be at your door to eat up the other guys mess. call me all make a mess!
2006-09-15 18:22:48 · answer #9 · answered by mike m 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
im pretty much in same boat...your not stupid for feeling this way...you really love him...but he cheated on you and thats not cool...you deserve a guy who really loves you and treat you like an angle...i hate to say it but he oviously doesnt love you if he cheated on you...im sorry and i hope you find the answers your looking for....samantha
2006-09-15 18:21:18 · answer #10 · answered by Sam15 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋